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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? India
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Hindu
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Sapiosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 1
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Getting Aroused

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 months

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Married sex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He looks extremely handsome but short. He is damn smart. I knew him very well but I was shy to tell him that I like him. He is my father’s friend’s son. I got tensed whenever he was near me

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were lying on the bed. In the middle of the night. I was feeling thirsty. I tried to turn around but feel electric jolt & fear & pleasure & shy all at same time.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? His palm was inside my bra. He was caressing my breast. He started twisting my nipples very slightly. I liked it so much. I let him do it. I was getting extremely wet. He knew that I was liking it. He spooned me closer & I could feel something poking me at the back. He was teasing me with dexterous hands. I didn’t refuse. I had been afraid earlier because I was new to all this. But his touch made me forget everything. He unhooked my bra. This gave him total freedom. He was pinching both my nipples. He then exposed my breasts outside. He suddenly stopped & took away his hands. I was waiting desperately &turned towards him. I could see the tent formed in his boxers. He usually sleeps in it. He was closing his eyes. I felt extremely shy. I reached over to take the jug from the table. I could sense his hands that caressed me. I drank water. Few drops spilled over my chest & neck. When I reached over again, he woke up. He asked me what I was doing. I replied shyly. My boobs were showing.he kept on staring at them. He wiped the wetness with his hands. He said it is not good to sleep with wet clothes. He undressed me. I was lying there only with my panty on. He touched the crotch. I pulled my thighs closer on instinct. He invaded in & touched me. I got more & more wet. He removed my panties. I was lying there completely naked in front of him. I tried to turn away. But he held me captive. He suddenly started licking my nipples. Oh my God. I was in heaven. He too got naked. He kissed me everywhere. He started licking my clit. Oh god, I was feeling extreme pleasure. I got wet too much. He then suddenly inserted his long wand. I was screaming in pain. He held me tight. He kissed me deeply. He said that he loved me.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next day I couldn’t wake up. I was too shy to look at his face even. He bathed me. He wanted it more & more. Even I did. We did again kind of everyday

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Plan B / Emergency contraception

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I didn’t talk about this to anyone

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I came to know that he is extremely caring

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The pain when he inserted for the first time

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I feel more confident

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Nothing

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? No idea

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