What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 59
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Pennsylvania
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Housewife
What’s your current relationship status? married, living in the same house but not together
Religious affiliation: Jewish
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? It started as a fling but has evolved into a special relationship
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is a longtime friend, slightly younger than myself. A neighbor before we moved back to our hometown. I reconnected with him when I went back to check our house as “it a rent to own”. He just gotten divorced and offered to let me stay at his house instead of getting a hotel.
It was convenient, saved money, and I enjoyed his company, we had been close couples, when we lived next door.
He was a lot fitter and slimmer than he was when we lived there, as I discovered, now being single he spent a lot of his time at the gym. He said that the dating scene for men over 50 wasn’t good.
We talked a lot, I had to admire his decision to divorce, and he said that it had been difficult, but that he had to weigh being unhappy or being alone, being alone won.
I hadn’t been happy in my marriage for years but I had let outside pressure keep me married.
I had always liked his company, he is good looking, witty, and charming, but I had never thought about him in a sexual way.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It didn’t happen right away, I check the house every 2-3 months as it is my source of income. As I said that we talked a lot, it wasn’t long before that I confided in him about my marriage. I told him that I had issues when I started menopause and my husband wasn’t very understanding, and the disputes we had about intimacy caused us to drift apart. I told him how sad it made me that we both became accustomed living like strangers after all of the years together, but divorce had frightened me.
It was after one of these conversations that we both fell into each other arms for comfort, then we began kissing, it wasn’t something that either one of us planned, it just seemed like a natural evolution.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The sex was fantastic, slow, gentle and exploring. We left a trail of clothes from the living room to the bedroom, his hands were all over my body and we never stopped kissing. I hadn’t had sex in 8 years and as anxious as I was to have him, he didn’t rush. He fingered me to orgasm, between his kisses he told me how desirable and beautiful I was. He told me that we wanted to taste me, and started to give me the most delightful oral, only interrupted when we positioned so I could reciprocate. I had another orgasm, we kissed and lay in each other arms. He rolled on top to enter me, but I told him that I liked doggie, and asked if he do me that way. As we were getting in position, he spread my legs, rubbed his cock around my pussy and it slid it in after a playful slap on my butt, which surprised me because I enjoyed it. I had several orgasms before he finally finished in me.
We lay in bed, I am not the type of person that likes to snuggle, but we lay there naked, sweaty, my leg over his. We talked about how great it felt to be with someone who wanted us and then had a chuckle as I began to leak out on his leg.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Fell asleep in his arms, I had not been that exhausted after sex in years. When I awoke I felt ecstatic and energized. We had sex in the shower before he went to work, and I gave him oral and swallowed, he quickly lifted me up and gave me a deep passionate kiss which I found extremely erotic, a man that wasn’t put off by sex juices.
I can only hope that it continues.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? no one, it is a secret
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I feel confident, more independent.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That I don’t see him more often
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
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