by Jane Rose
What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA, NYC
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Counselor
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Wiccan / Pagan
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Heterosexual with bisexual thoughts
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
Getting It On With My Best Friend and His Cousin
How long ago did this hookup happen? A day ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Two of the most handsome black men ever. One is my best friend and the other is a close friend almost family like to my best friend. I met my best friend through a friend who happened to be a relative of his and met his cousin at a party. We’re cool.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was set up! What was suppose to be just a hang out time, turned into a drunk night of passion and fun. My best friends cousin Kareem started it off and my best friend Anthony joined in for the fun.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I started sucking Kareem and I enjoyed it more than he did. I’ve never made love to a dick with my mouth before and hungered for more. Anthony walked in and pulled his dick out and Kareem directed my mouth to Anthony’s dick while I jerked him off. Soon enough I found myself on my back with my pussy in Anthony’s mouth and Kareem’s dick in mine. Once I came, I got up and Kareem sat on the sofa his dick still in my mouth and as I continued to suck Anthony entered me from the back the more he pounded the more I sucked.
They switched after a while and once Kareem entered me it was hard to focus on Anthony’s dick in my face. So he didn’t feel left out I jerked him off until he came. It was on between Kareem and I after that. Kareem was the one I wanted the whole time and I missed his touch and dick inside of me. I exploded every time he entered. I couldn’t get enough of tasting him and feeling his growth inside of my mouth and hearing him moan my name it was intoxicating. I was on a mission to make him cum and want me more, so I bent over felt his dick get thicker and thicker as he stroked my wet pussy. I wanted him to cum in my mouth so I moved away got on my knees and continued to suck his dick until he came hard. I tasted his cum and mine and sucked it all off his dick until I felt the throbbing of his dick subside. Afterward, I washed off, got dressed and was driven home.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt exhausted the next day, to be honest. Anthony and I will remain best friends and as for Kareem and me… who knows. One thing I do know is I wouldn’t mind a full one on one session with him alone. After his response, I don’t think he’d have an issue with it either.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, IUD (Intrauterine device)
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, Submission / Relinquishing power
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My soul mate and she was proud of it.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was with people I am comfortable with. I was in safe hands. I was able to be submissive.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nope
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It definitely left me sore and sleepy.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’d like for men to stop judging women based on their experiences. As long as everyone is safe, protected and comfortable, women shouldn’t have to worry about being judged or ashamed of what they’ve done, thought about doing, or will do.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s an amazing outlet to get your sexual experiences out.
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