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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 27
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Miami, FL
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? bartender
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Muslim
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

Getting Oral From My Boyfriend’s Best Friend

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He’s my boyfriend’s best friend. I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 2 years. I met my boyfriend at a club and he introduced his best friend soon after.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It wasn’t planned, and he initiated this hookup. We had always been flirty with each other, just for fun, but this time we were all out at a party, him, some girl he was dating, my boyfriend and me. From the beginning of the evening, he’d been going out of his way to touch me. The night was pretty crazy, and the party was so wild. I was coming from the bathroom alone, and I’d lost track of my boyfriend. The friend grabbed me and said that the others went this way, and he led me to a little room that looked like a library or music room. It was dark, and it was just me and him. I asked where we were going when he started playing with my skirt, lifting it up, running his fingers along my panty lines and just barely letting his fingers touch my pussy. I didn’t even have time to think about how wrong it was. It felt good, and I was drunk.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He asked me if I liked it, and I told him yes. And he asked if he could have “a taste.” I didn’t answer, but he picked me up and sat me in a chair facing a window and he started eating my pussy. It was some of the best I’ve ever had, and I was incredibly turned on. As he sucked my clit, he eased his fingers inside my pussy and stroked me in all the right places. While still sucking on my clit and making my pussy vibrate, he got so deep that he was fisting me at one point. I squirted and was embarrassed, but he loved it and laughed that I had made a mess on my skirt. Then, he turned me around and really started going to town. I’d never had anyone eat my ass before, but he was adamant on “tasting it all.” I had two orgasms. By the time he finished with me, we’d pretty much lost track of time. We didn’t say much after we caught up with my boyfriend and the other date and continued to not speak for the rest of the night.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We didn’t see each other for about a week, but the next time I saw him we ducked off and I let him “taste” again. I ‘d like to keep this going if we can keep it a secret.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, Cocaine, MDMA, ecstasy, molly

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, MDMA, ecstasy, molly

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? I’m not sure / I don’t know

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told no one.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I really enjoy getting eaten out, and he’s terrific at it.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He’s my boyfriend’s best friend, and I know this will hurt him.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? no

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I enjoy it.

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