What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 34
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Getting Over The Ex

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My friend – Michelle (not her real name)
Her husband – Mike (also not his real name)
I’ve known Michelle for about 15 years through friends of friends. She’s one of my best friends – great fun while still being a level head most of the time; someone I can trust. When I split from my ex a few months before this night, she was one of the people who supported me. Part of that support was a girl’s night out – drinking with her and some other mutual friends. I was staying at her place after that. She and Mike had been together for about 12 years; I was at their wedding and she’s one of those mates I got closer too over the years.

Michelle is fairly short with brunette hair and lovely, big eyes. She has a pear-shaped figure – quite small boobs with broad hips and a lovely, peachy bum (yes, I had noticed!) Mike is about average height, dark blonde hair, blue eyes, and a pretty nondescript figure. Quite broad, carrying a little extra weight, not bad in any sense. The night in question, Michelle was wearing a short, low-cut summer dress; Mike was in bed (more on that later!)

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It wasn’t planned. On the night out, we got fairly drunk. We ended up talking about sex; I said I was bi and had had a few threesomes (I’d probably told most of the girls this before – it wasn’t my big coming out or anything!) I probably also said I was gagging for it – because I was gagging for it. As we finished up for the night, Michelle and I went back to hers and sat on her sofa (with another glass of wine in our hands!) She told me she’d been curious about women. One thing led to another, and we started fooling around on the sofa.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As we started on the sofa. we were kissing and started groping each other. Michelle wasn’t wearing a bra, so I was able to open her dress and started playing with her boobs. She was really sensitive and seemed to love it. She undid my top. which soon came off along with my jeans. Then I got my hands under her dress and found a tiny thong, I slipped that aside and found out she was shaved smooth (which surprised me) and she was soaking wet (which, at the time, didn’t!) I slipped the tip of my finger into her and … she stopped me.

She was feeling guilty about doing this – about to have sex – particularly given Mike was in bed upstairs.

We talked for a few minutes and between us we worked out, it would all be OK if he was allowed to join in (again, drunken conversation, I can’t remember exactly how it went). So we trooped upstairs. Michelle was in front of me with her dress still down around her waist and me in my bra and knickers.

When we got upstairs, Mike was asleep in bed and we turned the light on. Michelle dropped her dress and crawled on the bed, giving me a lovely view of her bum as I stood waiting for her to say it was OK to join in. She started nuzzling Mike, waking him up and whispering to him. Before long, she pulled the bed covers down, slipped her hand inside his boxers and rubbing his cock. Then she looked over at me and sort of signaled me over as she pulled his cock out and started licking it. Mike was looking up at me, so I took off my bra as I was crawling on the bed. I’ve got much bigger boobs than Michelle! I knelt on the other side of Mike from Michelle and leaned in to kiss him, guiding his hand down to cup one of my boobs, which he seemed to love. Then I moved down to join Michelle at his cock.

I got there and joined Michelle licking his cock as he got harder, we started taking turns sucking him. His cock was reasonably big (definitely bigger than the ex’s I was getting over!) He was getting nice and hard and Michelle was sucking him and sounding turned on, so I moved around behind her and started to rub her pussy (Mike had been playing with her a little – but she moved to make it easier for me). She was soaking wet and before long I pulled her thong off and started to lick her. She moaned softly at first then got louder. Then Michelle stopped sucking Mike and turned over onto her back, with her legs wide open inviting me to lick her. Mike leaned in and kissed her as she worked his cock with her hand while I was licking away at her, with my tongue on her clit and fingers in her pussy. It had been quite a few years since I’d been with a woman, so I was loving it.

I got stopped by Mike. He moved over behind me, pulled down my knickers, and started rubbing my pussy before giving me a few licks – just as I’d been doing to his wife not too long before that! Then he sort of moved up and started subbing Michelle. I got the hint and moved out of the way, so he could get between her legs. She grabbed him and pulled him into her. I watched for a few minutes, then started making out with Mike, then Michelle, then down to lick and suck her nipples. She pulled me over, so I was astride her face and, for the first time, she started licking me. She was clearly not an expert, but she was enthusiastic and quickly got better. I lent in and started making out with Mike as he fucked his wife, while she licked my pussy. It wasn’t long before I came. As did Mike. And Michelle! Not all together, but pretty close to it.

After a bit of recovery time, we got to round two – when Mike fucked me from behind while I licked Michelle. She and I 69ed earlier. And at one point I licked her while she was riding her husband. This time, I finished Mike off with a quick boob-job and he came over my tits – something I love! We had a few more sessions in one of those nights where you don’t really sleep much, just doze between sex!

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next morning, we talked about it – at it was a bit nervy the next morning. But we were OK with it and after we had a good chat about it (a few days later), it was all good. By this time, Michelle had had a good chat with Mike and worked out they were both OK with it. In fact, they were up for doing it again sometime (and we have).

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, To cheer myself up

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Only the people involved in detail. I’ve told one other person who didn’t know either of them (and who I’d had another threesome with!)

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was a great night of sex. We’ve done it again, since then. And more.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I wish it had happened earlier!

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Confirmed it – not changed it.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It was good fun.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I love sex. So more is better! As long as everyone consents and no-one gets hurt, it’s all fine by me.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? An interesting project. I’ve enjoyed reading others’ stories.

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