What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 19
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Buddhist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 days ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I couldn’t build a better looking guy in my dreams. Hot wrestler body with biceps and big legs and no abs, which I prefer. He dresses like your standard college athlete: t-shirts, baseball caps, khaki shorts, etc. Literally the definition of tall, dark, and handsome. Before we met, I had just gotten out of a two year exclusive relationship and was just looking for some action. He’s a junior at the college where I’m a freshman. We hooked up three times in one week before he went home for Spring Break, then again after he got back. We agreed to not use a condom with each other anymore but definitely with all other people. His personality is laid back but a little distant and quiet.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We made plans over Snapchat to meet up around midnight. Even though we’ve hooked up a few times, we still only have each other’s Snapchat information. I don’t want to get close to him and I assume he doesn’t want to get close to me either. I came over after work and we cuddled and watched a show before putting on music.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He stared at me for a little bit after I finished saying something and then we kissed. He got on top of me and we made out for awhile. He kissed my neck and collarbone and pulled down the shoulder straps of my dress to bury his face in my tits. He sucked on my nipples while I touched his neck and pulled on his hair a little. Then I got on top and we made out some more before I worked my way from his ear to his neck, then chest, stomach, and finally his dick. I couldn’t contain my enthusiasm. I kept smiling while I was licking and kissing it. He has a beautiful perfect 7-inch dick, and it’s really fun to suck on. After letting me do my thing for a while, he started to hold my face while thrusting into my throat. I focused on keeping my lips between my teeth and his dick, and not gagging. I don’t know why I like giving him head so much, but I do. After that, he got up and pulled me by the legs to the side of the bed and fucked me from behind. He fucks high speed with a lot of enthusiasm. Then pulled me closer to him so I was practically kneeling but leaning forward and my back touched his chest and he kissed my neck while going so hard. I could feel his heart beating and heavy breathing. After he let go, I was face down ass up and gave him my arms to pin down behind my back. He pulled my hair and I told him to pull harder so he did and fucked me even rougher. We were so sweaty and hyperventilating but it felt fucking bomb. I was so fucking into it and wanted to scream but didn’t because his roommates/teammates were home. I arched my back and sucked on his fingers while working my ass on his dick. He started to growl then flipped me over and got on top of me. He fucked me while holding my legs together in the air. We both alternated between looking at each other and watching the action below. He choked my neck and I felt so full. He finally slowed down and thrust hella deep, then pulled out and came on my stomach and breasts.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He got me a towel and water. We got dressed. He apologized for only lasting 10 minutes and told me that was the fastest he’d ever come. That makes me feel like he doesn’t usually have sex with one partner multiple times but who knows. I bet he has a high body count. He asked me when we can fuck again. We’re meeting up tomorrow.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, IUD (Intrauterine device)
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, Power / Dominance
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My close friends know I’m having sex with a few people. Some of them know him. They think he’s hot.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Our sexual chemistry.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I wish it went on longer.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I learned that good sex for me isn’t just about getting what I want. I have to be a little deprived too. I didn’t receive oral or orgasm but I really like fucking this guy. I don’t know why. My ex was also really attractive and we had beautiful loving sex and he ate me out, but I’d say this experience was more fun.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I have a crush on this guy but I’m trying to get over it because at the end of the day I don’t want a relationship anyway. I want to be single and fuck a lot of people and work on myself. But we talked a little about the subject and he asked me if all I wanted was sex and I said yes and he didn’t give any response or reaction.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I am only beginning to have casual sex and it makes me feel super powerful because I call the shots.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s awesome and is helping to suck the shame out of a pointlessly taboo aspect of modern life.
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