What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 38
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Firefighter
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 8
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We worked together. She was only a voice over the radio and phone and so was I to her. I stopped in a couple late nights and we finally met. The look in her eyes and playfulness made for fun innocent flirting at first as we were both married but not to each other. She got my number so they could tell me things about the calls they were sending me on or if they wanted late night coffees to survive the night shifts.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We first started texting each other and the texts started fun and playful to full on flirting and teasing. We even sent each other sexy pictures to help us survive the long shifts, which brought us a lot of excitement and ideas.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I was coming off shift as was she and she asked if I would stop by because she wanted to ask me something and really needed to talk with me. She sent her address to me and I went there. I knocked the door nervously and she opened it in a long shirt and nothing else. I walked in and the door closed then her body was against mine and we were kissing each other passionately. The feel of her smooth legs in my hands drove me wild. Frantically she undressed me and I slid the shirt over her head. She was so wet as I slid my finger between her vaginal lips. We went to the carpeted floor and I kissed my way between her legs. She went wild begging me to just fuck her. I slid up putting my cock head at her opening and looked her in the eyes as I slid into her for the first time. She was so tight and wet and I went slowly at first to make it last then I let her on top. Eventually, I lifted her to the couch, raising her legs and rammed hard and fast for the finish. She came with loud screams of pleasure and profanity that could only be repeated in this moment of passion. When it was over she said I better go in case my wife or her husband started to wonder why they hadn’t heard from us.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We hooked up many times and in many places. But sometimes we leave with a year or two gap between.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant. Sterilization
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness. Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting. Just happened, I don’t know why just went along with it.
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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