What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 52
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? London, England
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Sales manageress
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 9
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Gigantic Penis At The Gym
How long ago did this hookup happen? 32 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met Mike in 1986. It was a long time ago now. We were both in our early twenties and trained with our friends at a local gym. I was considered a bit of a ‘tom boy’ as I was short, quite small and fairly flat chested. All my friends seemed more glamorous than me and attracted more guys, Mike was very good looking – he actually looked like he could be in a rock group – longish hair, an earring, but he was also fairly quiet, Over time I realized he was very bright and also very funny.
After a few months it was obvious to our social circle at the gym that I was attracted to him, but I wasn’t sure he felt the same way. He lived near me and started to give me lifts home and we used to chat for ages in his car, but nothing romantic ever seemed to happen.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hookup finally happened one Sunday afternoon. The gym was officially closed for re-decoration, but because I knew the manager I had spare keys and invited Mike to come training as usual. I’m not sure if I was planning anything, but the whole atmosphere between the two of us felt different – edgier, sexier.
We trained as usual and I ‘spotted’ for him when he bench pressed, and I remember being acutely aware of the close proximity of our bodies. Both of us were real gym bunnies and we were both in great shape. Also we were still kids in our early twenties! Mike was very buff and broad, and I didn’t have an ounce of fat on me. I remember he complimented me on my abs (I was wearing a vest top) and my calves. I had great slim athletic legs, if I do say so myself. There was a lot of sexual tension that afternoon.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Basically it happened because Mike had to use the women’s locker rooms and we ended up showering side by side! He asked me if I was comfortable with it and I said yes, but I remember feeling insanely nervous. Mike took his clothes off and went in first. The shower stands didn’t have doors and there was just a panel of opaque glass at chest height separating them.
I remember gazing at him from behind as he stood under the shower and then he turned round. He had the biggest penis I have ever seen in my life. He wasn’t hard but it was enormous – this beautiful thick length with a long foreskin just kind of hanging there. I remember feeling this surge in my vagina. I started washing my hair and Mike put his hands over the shower wall and started shampooing and helping wash my hair. It was so fucking sexy, I thought I was going to pass out!
The sex just happened. I’d never behaved like this with anyone least of all a guy I wasn’t even dating. I remember going down on him in the shower and his cock was so fat I struggled to get it in my mouth. Mike’s erection was a sight to behold (I had heard his friends make gags about the size of his prick, but I had never taken them seriously). He must have been pushing a good 7, maybe even 8 inches long but it was the girth I remember most and this great big muscly vein on the underside. I shocked myself with how turned on I got over that penis. I felt almost ashamed.
I remember him fucking me on the tiled floor and how uncomfortable it was on my back but how I didn’t care. My vagina had never felt so open and wet and full up before. I was on the pill (as I’d been dating a guy but it had ended) and I just let him come up me. I’d never let a guy I wasn’t dating do that, but I let Mike.
We fucked in that room for over an hour. He went down on me, I went down on him, I also remember him licking my asshole. Nobody had ever done that to me before or since but I just let him. I think there was this explosion of weird lust that had been building up for months. We finally came to our senses and drove back to mine and he fucked me again in my parents’ house (they were away for the weekend). I remember looking at him in my bedroom mirror and marveling at that massive cock again. I was obsessed by it but felt embarrassed about being obsessed by it. I felt like a slut, if I’m honest.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We hooked up several times over a period of a couple of months but then it all got a bit weird. I started acting quite submissive with Mike which I had never done before or since with anyone. I remember drooling over his penis and wanting him to pull my hair when I sucked him. Mike and I were both athletic and had muscles, and I recall an almost nasty sexual chemistry during our later hookups. He responded and got quite rough with me – and I loved it. But I also hated myself afterwards for behaving like that.
At the time I felt almost scared about the way Mike made me feel. I wasn’t in control. I remember lying on my bed and talking dirty (I had NEVER talked dirty in my life before) while he came in my mouth and all over my face and boobs. He came buckets. It was unreal. I remember looking up at Mike’s massive ‘thing’ just emptying itself everywhere and looking down at my naked body covered in his semen and thinking, How have I ended up here?
Eventually Mike’s ex came back into the picture, he started distancing himself from me at the gym. I did miss him and the sex, but I think our moment had passed. The social scene at the gym broke up. I also met a serious boyfriend soon after.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My girlfriends, including my gym buddy Angela – who became desperate to see Mike’s penis – and started pursuing him. I don’t think they ever got together though
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Mike’s penis. I had never considered myself a ‘size queen’ before but seeing and experiencing such a beautiful big cock really stayed with me. It helped that I was attracted to the guy attached to it! But his size was such an unexpected turn on it made me react sexually in a way I never had before and never have since.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The weirdness that crept into our friendship soon after. We were platonic friends who hooked up and we couldn’t go back to how we were. Mike came in my mouth and pussy. When a guy has done that it’s hard for him to see you the same way 🙂
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It made me more open minded. I discovered something about my sexuality that afternoon that’s remained with me since. I acted impulsively and shocked myself. I felt a little uneasy about my behaviour but 30 years on I realize I did nothing wrong.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It’s still the most erotic sexual experience of my life. I was married for many years to a great guy and we had two kids together (before an amicable split), but if I am brutally honest my husband never made me feel like Mike did in that changing room. My husband’s penis was also significantly smaller and I am ashamed to say I did compare them mentally the first time we had sex.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? No specific thoughts
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I find the stories fascinating and rather sexy.
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