What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Management
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Girl from the gym
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was 5’8″, black hair down past her shoulders, milky skin, brown eyes, great ass, and A cup tits. I’ve known her since she was really young. Her dad was my teacher in school. Found her attractive back in high school, but never moved on it.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We did a couple workout sessions at the gym and one day she was talking about how stressful her life was with her bf and work. I suggested maybe we go out for drinks later that night and she said yes. She lived with her bf and I lived about 20 minutes from her. She drove out to where I lived and we met at the bar right next to my place. We talked for the first few drinks then started playing pool. After I beat her in the first two games and we had a few more drinks she asked if I wanted to bet on who won the next couple of games. I said yes, not thinking a lot about it. The first bet was that whoever lost would have to give the other a massage. I won the game and she got pouty and said she wanted one. The second bet was who would buy the next round and I lost. At this point, we were both fairly drunk and she said she felt bad that I lost and said if I won the next game she would show me her tits. I won the game and she flashed me and quickly looked in the bar. We had a couple more drinks and played one last game. She asked what the bet was. I said if said she won I’d pay for all the drinks, but if she lost she would give me a bj. She agreed without even giving it a thought. I was kind of joking when I said it. She ended up putting the eight ball in on the second shot and losing. We had a good laugh and paid our tabs. She asked if she could crash at my place to sober up and I agreed. We walked because it was less than a mile away. Once we got to my place, she used the bathroom and I grabbed a pillow for the couch for me. She came out and asked if I wanted the massage I was owed. I agreed and asked if she wanted one first. She took off her shirt and laid face first down on my bed. I gave her a great massage and she told me to unhook her bra so I could get all of her back. I did and finished the massage. She then asked me to lay down and I did. She never put her bra or shirt back on and had me pull off my shirt. She massaged me and asked me in the middle of it if I actually wanted a bj from her. I kind of laughed a bit and said I was joking in the bar about the bet. She said she would give one since she owed me and all. I was kind of shocked and didn’t know how to answer. She then got off my back and asked me to roll over and I did. Her tits were still out and her nipples had gotten hard. I started to get hard in my pants and she noticed. She asked if she could give me a massage with her mouth. I said ok.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She unzipped my pants and sucked on my dick for what felt like forever and she was very good at it. She said she had only had sex once with her bf and that he wasn’t very good and asked if we could try. I agreed and pulled off her pants and thong. I licked her pussy making her cum several times. She said she had never done that before and wanted to try everything. I rolled her onto her back on lined up my cock with her hole. I slid it in and she squirmed under me. She said I was way bigger than her bf. She came really quick and her tight pussy squeezed my cock so hard I shot my load into her. Her eyes got really big and she asked what just happened. I said I came in her. She said it felt really good and not to worry she was on birth control. I pulled out and she reached down and put her finger in her pussy. She smelled it and licked it. She said she liked the flavor. She asked what else we could do. I told her to suck it some more. She happily agreed and got me hard again. I got some lube and put it all over my cock and her asshole she looked back at me with big eyes. I put the tip against her hole and started to push she jumped and said to slow down. I slowly pushed in and fed my cock to her hole. I began slow and started to slam her asshole. She tensed up and came again. She turned around and told me loved anal but she wanted to taste my cum again. I pulled out and she stroked my cock and sucked the head until I shot a load in her mouth. She swallowed it all down. We ended up falling asleep after that.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We hooked up a couple more times while she had a bf still. She broke up with him and we were fuck buddies for a month. She recently married the man she broke up. She called me the week before she got married and we hooked up one more time. I came in her again and she told me after I did that still he was not on birth control. She texted me that she is pregnant now but not sure who’s it is.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Intoxication, Material rewards (gifts, money, drinks, dinner…)
How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
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