What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 54
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Flint, MI, USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Executive
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Experienced
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 350+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
The Girl Next Door
How long ago did this hookup happen? 9 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was on a long-term visit to my parents’ place while on vacation. The couple next door to them (Jon & Ruby) were a little on the messy side, as was evident from their yard and how they dressed, but were usually quiet. Their 20 year old son (Bill) lived with them along with his 16 year old girlfriend.
I went to get the mail and found a piece of the neighbors’ mail in my parents’ box, so I took it over. I knocked on the door and this amazingly beautiful redhead teen with blue/green eyes came to the door. I almost choked on my words but introduced myself and handed her the mail. I am glad that I knew she was 16 because she sure looked older/legal. She started texting me a few days later after she found my info in Bill’s phone. At first I ignored it but then found it rather intriguing that a young girl would find me as attractive as I found her.
After I went home a couple weeks later we continued texting. There were no sexual innuendos at this point but there were some obvious flirtations from her. I soon decided to plan another extended vacation to my parents in another 14 months, which would be about a month after her 18th birthday.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I told her a few weeks before my vacation that I would be coming into town but would be driving my 40 foot motor home so that I could stay in it instead of in my folks’ house. She asked if I would be willing to give her a ride in it because she had never been in a motor home before. That’s when the innuendos started firing up. She did tell me that Bill was the only guy she’d ever been with, and had been with him since she was 14.
When I drove up in my RV I could see her looking out the front window, and I wondered if the fantasies I had been dreaming about for the past year and a half had any shot at coming true. I told her that we would have to wait for at least the 3rd day before I could take her for a ride because of scheduled family visits, and that it would not be a good idea to just have her jump in and go in front of everybody (my parents and most of their neighbors are “proper” people. So, we set it up that I would go out the 3rd evening as if I was going to fuel up the RV and take an overnight excursion, and we could meet up at the store a couple blocks away.
When she walked up to the open door of my RV she was wearing a thin yellow spaghetti strap tank top with really nice Daisy Duke denim shorts and sandals. WOW! I told her she looked amazing and invited her in. She looked around and complimented the RV as I pulled away. After coming up from the back she said she didn’t expect a queen size bed in “one of these things,” and that it looked real comfortable. We drove down the highway and talked for about 20 minutes or so when she asked me, “Why did you keep texting me?” I told her that while I was old enough to be her father that I thought she was very attractive and sexy, and, “to be honest, when I brought the mail over to you a couple years ago I wanted to eat you right then except that I knew you were underage.” To which she answered, “Maybe you should have said something.”
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We drove another 15 minutes or so until I asked her what time she was expected back. She said she told Bill that she was going to her dad’s for the night. I looked at her and said, “I think I probably don’t look anything like your dad. Would you like me to take you to his place or where would you like to go?” She turned in the captain’s chair and looked toward the back of the RV and said, “It looks kinda comfortable back there.”
We pulled into a rest area along the highway and, after a brief walk got back into the coach. I could see that she was a little nervous so I told her that she could do anything she wanted to do inside the coach. She flew across the aisle and started kissing me so hard she almost broke my glasses. I picked her up, carried her back to the bedroom and made sure the opaque curtains were drawn closed. Our hands were instantly all over each other. She had very perky B cup breasts; very soft, velvety skin; and lips that could make a dead man erect again. We started stripping each other but I slowed it down because I wanted to make sure that both of us would remember this forever, especially if it was going to be just a one night stand. After making out for probably 20 minutes or so, slowly loosening each others clothes, I got up and pulled her pants off and immediately started eating one of the best, sweetest pussies I’ve had the privilege to taste. I must have eaten her for about a half hour because she had at least a dozen or more orgasms about a minute or so apart. When I was done eating her my bed was already soaked from her orgasmic juices, and my face was soaked as well. I climbed onto the bed and got into the 69 position on our sides, where we stayed for probably another 20 minutes or so, until I knew I needed to be inside this beautiful girl. I laid her onto her back, slid her all the way up to the pillows as she spread her legs, and I slid into that beautifully soaked hole. We started fucking in the missionary position, but changed positions a dozen times or more over the next few hours. We talked about several different things while making love, including what she did for work (she was going to college to be a veterinarian, she graduated high school a year early). I enjoy complimenting (not flattery) when having sex, and one of the things I started telling her is that she would look good on videos. This caused her to get even more excited, especially when I told her that I would like to see her with another man’s cock in her mouth while I fucked her. She told me that she had been with other girls and enjoyed lesbian sex very much but that she didn’t think she could do two men at the same time but that she liked me telling her those things.
Since she said she had only been with Bill, and I knew from recent tests that I was clean, I didn’t bother with a condom; so when I knew I was getting close to cumming I asked her about her protection but she wasn’t on BC, so I told her I would pull out so she could swallow it. She was all ready for it and happily swallowed the full load, only later to tell me that she had never even given head before me. I told her that it could have fooled me because her natural talents were phenomenal. She also told me that Bill never went down on her so this was the first time she had been eaten by a man.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After our mind-blowing three and a half hours of sex, we fell asleep under the covers until we woke up to a new day coming through the skylight. I made our breakfast, and we talked and decided that we needed to stay in touch and get together again. I was planning on staying for about two months, so that offered us ample opportunity for repeat hookups. After going back home, I decided to move back to my hometown, since my business is mostly online and mobile, and we hooked up at least two or three times each month for the next couple of years before she moved to go to another veterinary school out west, to which she had a full scholarship. We are still friends and tweet now and then. She has been married and divorced, and married again, and has three children. She is coming back to the area for a visit next summer and we are looking forward to hooking up again at that time. I will have to be a bit more cunning with my scheduling to make it work now, as I am married and want to stay married. One way or another, though, even if I have to schedule an “out-of-town trip at the last minute”, we will hookup when she is in town.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal, Fertility awareness (days counting, temperature)
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Making new friends
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked with a buddy of mine about it one time after I found out that he was into straight MFM threesomes, but this was after she had moved away. He had seen her a few times when he was with me at my parents’ place, so he had an idea of the fun I had. He said that he was jealous and wanted to hookup with her in a threesome. Maybe we can arrange something if she is up for it when she comes to town next summer. Who knows?
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Being in my mid-forties at the time and having a gorgeous teen girl come on to me was really something, but the experience of actually having sex with this young goddess was one of the best sexual relationships I’ve had. We are still friends and talk about hooking up again at some point in the future. Oh, and she sometimes texts me naked pics.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It couldn’t last longer.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? There are young girls who desire older men. They are somewhat rare but they are out there. I’ve known a few others in the years since Connie.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Remember that I told her many times, not just during the first hookup but many times over the next couple years, that she should be in porn flicks? Well, she did a series of about 12 adult videos during 2010 and 2011. I’ve seen every one of them and have complimented her on each of them.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex has been a big part of my life since I was about 14 years old. I have enjoyed CS many thousands of times with several hundred partners, some as one night stands, some FWB, and even within committed relationships. CS can be a negative when it is either coerced or to try to improve ones self image/self respect. If one party is coerced, then that can be considered a form of rape both legally and morally. In order to safely enjoy casual sex one should not expect it to be a cure or a tool to improve ones self image or social standing, but instead it should be viewed as recreation and relaxation, as it can definitely fulfill both of those needs, but ONLY when all parties are willingly consenting.
I think that CS is practiced by more people than would admit it even in a completely anonymous survey. That being said, there are not as many who enjoy it regularly as many of us would like to imagine.
I would like to see the social stigma erased for both men and women who choose to enjoy casual sex, whether on a rather regular basis or simply as an occasional diversion.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Very interesting! I’ve read several of the stories and have enjoyed them all. I’m glad they are categorized – it makes it easy to avoid the ones I would not find to my liking.
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