What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 27
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Medical field
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Girl I Went to Elementary School With

How long ago did this hookup happen? December 2014

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? J was a girl I went to elementary school with all the way up till graduation from high school. We didn’t graduate the same year as she was held back at some point. Not the smartest person. In the 4th grade I remember having a crush on her but after that year we never really spoke again all the years in school. After we graduated, I never thought much about her. Knew she had a kid at some point but that was all. She is the kind of girl that grows up in a small town, has a kid and does nothing impressive with her life. She worked at the local wal-mart. J was about 5’6, weighed about 140ish, had big boobs and a good ass. She always wore glasses and had big lips. She was hispanic. Decent looking face but overall not very impressive.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My son had just been born about a week before and we were at home. My wife had decided to go to bed a little earlier than me and I got on Facebook. She was on my people you may know section and I recognized her right away. Her face hadn’t changed at all since elementary school. I assumed she was kind of a slut and wanted a new piece of ass. At this time I already had an ongoing affair with another woman that I talk about in my first story so I was already cheating on my wife. So I sent her just a friendly message. She responded right away and the conversation went on pretty normal and friendly for about ten minutes. I decided it was time to shift and admitted that I used to have a crush on her in the fourth grade. She found that funny and said “really?” I said yes and that I still found her attractive. She just sent little dots. I responded by telling her that if I would have let her know who knows what could have happened. She responded by saying “well we are still young and alot of things could still happen”. I knew I was in. I suggested we meet up the next day. She agreed. I suggested meeting up at a park where I knew it was quiet. The next morning at about 9am I drove out to the same park and spot I describe in my first story. It also happens to be the same spot I fuck my other side chick all the time. I arrived first and she arrived shortly after, got in my pickup and we drove to a side road.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got out there and parked. Immediately I had her sit next to me and went in for a kiss. She was a terrible kisser. I removed her hody and shirt and bra. Her boobs were huge but disappointing. They sag and the nipplespoint down to the ground. Plus she had those big pepperoni type areolas and bug nipples at the center of them. At this point though I just sucked them anyway. They are still new tits to me. About a minute later I told her to take off her pajama pants. She laughed a little and said she wasn’t wearing underwear. I smiled and she undressed. I pulled my shoes, pants, and boxers off. I laid her back in the passenger seat of my pickup where her head was resting on the door and climed on top of her. I took this chance to look at her pussy. It was completely shaved which I almost require from girls. But, her lips were pretty dark and a little saggy as well. Her outer lips were wrinkled a little. Not a bad looking pussy, but my wife’s is definitely still the nicest one I have seen in person. I kissed her again and asked about birth control. She said she wasn’t on any. I slid my dick up and down in between her pussy lips and she was pretty wet. I asked her about why she isn’t on birth control and she said it’s because she hasn’t had sex in 6 months. I pushed my dick in her and told her I wanted to get her pregnant. While I went in and out she just kind of laid there with her eyes closed making small moans. It was actually pretty boring. I felt myself getting close to cumming. I was really thinking with my dick at this point because I really was turned on by her getting pregnant. I came hard inside of her and kissed her again when I finished. I pulled out and sat up. We talked for a short while about her and her life and then I got horny again. I laid her back again and fucked her one more time. Again I came in her pussy. Afterward, we got dressed and she said she had been wanting another baby for a while and would be happy if it was mine. She also said because I was married she would keep the whole thing a secret. I knew she would. I drove her back to her car and we went our separate ways.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I went back to work after the hookup. I felt great. It’s always nice to fuck a new girl. I had no hopes other than to fuck her a fee more times. I don’t think about her much at all anymore.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, To feel better about myself, To feel more confident, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody. I never tell about my extramarital affairs.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? New pussy and cumming inside her.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? If she would have got pregnant that would have ruined my marriage.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It gave me more confidence and I also have lost some in women. Contrary to belief, they will have sex with you regardless of marital status. They also do not use condoms anymore than men.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I saw her recently with a pregnant belly. Some other poor guy will have a baby with this easy girl.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It is great. We were not meant to be monogamous.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it

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