by Q

Gender: Female
Age: 22
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Current location: Poland
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 month ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Friends-with-benefits

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Tall, long black hair, pretty big breast – not really my type.
We worked together, it was part-time job during college. We hooked up once when we came back from a party, drunk.
I’ve always seen her as a kind of liberated woman, so I guess that it helped me to perceive her as a potential sex partner.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were looking for some occupation for the weekend, finally ended up in hers place with two random guys (she said that one of them was her distant acquaintance, but he didn’t seem like one). We smoked some weed before they came, so we were bit distracted. We kinda mocked out of them, they were pretty lame. I’ve started getting tired but all that she was talking about was to go to a party. I’ve earned a badge of grumpy boring lady (of course, this loosers thought that because I didn’t laugh at every word that they said), but I didn’t care much ’cause I already knew how to convince her to stay with me at home, instead of going out with them. I probably said something to her, but I was pretty stoned so don’t remember exactly but they went out and we’ve made a bed for two.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I remembered that night how satisfying mututal lesbian penetration can be. I always say that fingers are much practical in getting to G spot, but I guess that that night drugs helped to feel it more intense.
I made her come only by that and soon after that I came too. At first, she was to agressive, but I started to give her tips about intensity and pace.
Day after that she told me that I was first girl that she slept with.

I think that also our former talk helped to feel intimate and got us closer – we were talking about our families, which are very fucked up. Some of the thoughts that came up were told for the first time, both mine and hers.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I don’t really know how you can get infected during homosexual female sex…

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Fun, mostly. She just broke up with her boyfriend, I was dealing with a tough heartbreak for several months and it was good to focus our minds on sth else. Even SOMEONE else.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Two spliffs, cider, beer, some whiskey… Sounds like lots, but we didn’t felt drunk. Drugs definitely had more affect on us.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We TALKED about it, that was surprising. Mostly, when I sleep with my friends or colleagues, we’re acting like nothing happend.
I guess that was more like adventure for her. Even if it wasn’t I wouldn’t made any plans ’cause I feel like it was one time thing – it was really SOMETHING, but not in a romantic way. More like very natural, primal even.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? To my best friend. She worked with us too, so she knew who I was talking about.
Also, we made laugh out of it, ’cause couple months ago I slept with another friend from work. And I was her first girl too. So I’m just, like, showing them whole new world haha!

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It made me think that not all casual relations with people have to be complicated. It was refreshing after some of my former “relationships”.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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