What’s your gender? Man
What continent do you live on? Europe
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual

Glad I Went to the Reunion

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was Central Asian, with jet black hair, sleek dark brown eyes, and milky olive skin. He was tall, thin, South American. I met them both in college, where me and her flirted quite a bit but were both in relationships at that time. Me and him lived across the hall and became close friends.

I returned to the city to see all of my old friends, and we gathered for a reunion at our favorite bar. Since this was an overdue trip to see many good friends, I wasn’t prioritizing sex. But, as the night went on and people dwindled, I looked over at her more and more. Soon, it was just me her and him, and the three of us decided to continue the party at his apartment.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Looking back, the room was full of gunpowder- no matter what anyone said or did, we would take it as a sign that we should get naked. She was sitting on my lap, then his, then were talking about the best and worst sex we ever had, then we wanted to see how much he had been working out over the last year so he stripped to his underwear, then she got fake jealous and showed us her body to compare, then I stripped because I’m not rude. So we’re there, in our underwear, and there was a pause. So I kissed her. And that was the match that lit the gunpowder.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I didn’t get hard until after we kissed, when she placed a hand on my chest and turned to kiss him. Then, she turned around to really go at him, and I unhooked her bra and played with her breasts. My penis was pushing hard against her ass, so she grabbed it and started softly rubbing it. Then, she turned around abruptly and ripped my underpants right off, grazing the underside of my penis with her fingertips and looking at me with a tempting look as he slipped her panties off. I sat down on the chair and she went down on me while he rubbed up and down her body. She lifted her hips in the air, so my friend took off his boxers and entered her. She really got into it after that.

We went up to his bed and there was a blur of bodies- she was on top of him, she went down on him, I was behind her, under her, over her. She loved laying us down side by side and going down on both of us. There were moments where I laid and watched them, he laid and watched me and her. The alcohol made me well contained, but after he went downstairs to get drinks and came back up stairs to find us having sex in his bed, I came hard inside of her. That opened the gates. She came as I came. Then she pushed him down and rode him for a short time until she had an orgasm. She went down on him, and I played with her for a while, then he came in her mouth, and I got hard again. I ended up coming inside her twice, she came at least 3 times, and he came once.

I fell asleep right there in the bed, and was woken by the sound of them having sex in the morning. But this was a different vibe- I could tell they wanted each other to themselves. I guess we all reached a new level of adventure, so they felt honest about their feelings for each other. Or maybe she thought his stroke was better. I don’t know and I don’t care. But I did eat all his Cinnamon Toast Crunch while they had morning sex. Some things you just can’t share.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We were all on the same page, we wanted to have some fun and we deserved it for being good, smart, young people. I ended up leaving town as scheduled, and they stayed. I think they hooked up again. Good for them. That was fun.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have

How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I don’t think its fair to widely share a group hookup. These things involve more people, and the girl had some strict family and slut-shaming friends, so I didn’t tell anyone.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We were all on the same page at the same time in the same place.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? How do you bring up the idea of doing that again? Who wants to do really fun stuff only once??

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