What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 41
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? California
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Nurse
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Virgin until my husband and I dated for 6 months
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 1 until this incident
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0


How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? It Was my husbands 40th birthday so we drove to the city to stay at a nice hotel for an evening alone without our kids. We went out for a nice supper and then as a treat we went to buy a porno and a new toy to have some fun with back in the room to celebrate.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After we purchase the movie and the toy, the clerk said they have a viewing area in the back if we’d like to watch a video. My husband and I were both assuming he meant the video we bought. My hubby was quite excited at the idea and I figured let’s check it out so I bought some tokens and we headed into the small room. Turns out you watch preselected movies and the tokens are for a timer I guess.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We watched the movie for a while and then my husband pulled out his penis and I started stroking him while we watched. The room didn’t have very good lights so was fairly dark in there. About 10 minutes later my husband noticed something and told me to look. There was a hole in the wall and a penis sticking through it. I was shocked, no idea what to do. The stranger asked for a handjob or a BJ. My husband suggested I stroke the guy as a “favor” to him. I hesitated but eventually did. Soon he came but warned me and I jerked him onto the floor. My husband loved it and bent me over, hiked up my dress and then started having sex with me. Not long into it, another penis was poking through the hole. I started jerking him too without even thinking, soon I was sucking him. Once again, this man announced he was gonna cum and I jerked him off onto the floor. I was shocked by how I had so easily sexually performed on 2 strangers, neither of whom I knew their name or had even seen their face. My husband was still penetrating me doggy style and had been encouraging me with both men. I had placed both my hands on the wall for support and my head was hanging down when my husband spoke and said I had another friend waiting. I looked up to see a big black penis dangling through the hole. This man was thick and long, and I wasn’t sure if my husband would be ok if I sucked a black man and I know how racist this sounds. He saw me hesitate and said suck him so I did take him into my mouth. Soon I couldn’t take much more than the tip because of his size as he was now fully erect. I began to lick his shaft and stroke him while my husband continued from behind. The man then asked if he could taste my “pussy”. I hate that word but my
Husband enthusiastically said yes and he pulled out of me and pushed the small table from the corner over to the hole. I got on and scooted my crotch towards the wall. The man fingered me first and then began licking me. My husband was now kissing me and holding my upper body to support me on the small table. The man continued licking me for a few minutes and then stopped, soon I felt what I thought was his thumb on my vagina. It was his penis and he was trying to fit inside me. I panicked a bit and said to my husband that he was trying to have sex with me and what should we do? After a long pause, my husband blurred out to the man “Fuck her good!” I was shocked but I admit excited to feel his big penis inside me. It took several attempts for him to get past the head and when he did he slowly started throwing inside me. Each stroke deeper than the last until he had all he could get with the wall in the way. It was incredible, I’d never felt so satisfied. I think it wasn’t his size but that he was new. This continued until I had an orgasm and then so did he and he ejaculated inside me. I assumed he was done but he lingered inside me and was starting to slowly thrust back and forth again. I then realized he was back at full erection and was having sex with me again. He said crudely “I love this white pussy! Gonna have another round.” I felt like a cheap whore when he said that but the pleasure allowed me to ignore him. He picked up the pace and was soon announcing another orgasm but asked where I wanted it this time. Without thinking, I got off the table, pushed it out of the way and squatted in front of the hole. I jerked him with the tip in my mouth until he came and I swallowed. With that, he said thanks and left. After that, we dressed and left for the hotel. My husband enjoyed his present he said although I ensured him this was not planned at all.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt guilty for cheating but my husband wanted it and encouraged it. Felt cheap for acting slutty. Felt aroused because of acting slutty and felt wanted by the men. I Regret not screwing the other men as I would like to know if it was the black man’s penis size that got me so worked up or because it was such an erotic situation.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Sterilization

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Didn’t want to disappoint my partner

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just my husband

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Sex was incredible. Orgasm from just penetration

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I cheated

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I feel more confident

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Trying something new was incredible

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Nothing

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great

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