What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 46
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? More than a few
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 5

It’s Going to Be a Long 9 Months

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years and still going

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup?

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? “CD” is a beautiful Asian woman, 35, 5’3, curvy, married and a mother of three. We met at a conference and started an affair about 2 years ago. We live in different states, quite far apart, and meet whenever our travels allow us to do so conveniently and safely. We are both married, and even though we have feelings for each other (i.e., “love” each other), neither of us has any desire right now to leave our respective spouses and families. And therein lies the rub of this story.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met recently at a conference in Miami. We normally share a room (incognito) when we travel together and did so again at this conference. On the last night before we left to go our respective ways, we had just got done making love and were cuddling together, talking about how much we’d miss each other. I was gently rubbing her back and she was casually playing with my limp dick, as we talked. Eventually, she got me hard and she said, “Oh looky here, someone is really going to miss me!” referring to my hard cock. Normally, we always use condoms because neither one of us wants to take the chance of “CD” getting pregnant from me — because “CD” is Asian, her husband is Asian and I’m Caucasian, and it would be hard to explain her having a half-white baby. But for some reason, that night, “CD” just rolled onto me and put me in her, and started to slowly and sensually ride my cock. We kissed deeply as she rode me and we fucked like only two lovers “in love” can do. After a while, I knew she was getting close to cumming because her motions became more forceful as they do when she gets close, and she started saying, “Oh God, I love you, I love you, I love” as she rode me. I felt the urge starting to build in me so I told her that she needed to get off before I came in her. But she just kept riding me faster and then she came and as she did, so did I! I tried to pull out as I came but I know the shot at least two spurts in her before I was able to pull out.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After we both calm down, I told “CD” that I was concerned that I had cum in her and what if she got pregnant. “CD” said that she didn’t think it was her fertile time, and not to worry. Still, I told her that it might be safe for her to take a “morning after” pill just in case, but she said she didn’t think it was necessary because I probably didn’t shoot much in her as we had fucked twice that night, and 6-7 times over the 3 day conference, and I had pulled out right away. Still, I was worried . . . and that worried feeling continued even after we parted ways. Well, as you might guess, “CD” just told me that she is pregnant. She said that when she got home, her husband fucked her, so there’s a chance it is his, but there is also a chance that it is mine. She just doesn’t know. Man, it’s going to be a long 9 months for both of us!

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I’m worried and scared right now. “CD” getting pregnant with my child is going to cause a major problem for her, and eventually for me too.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one right now except “CD”

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Very much

Why do you regret this hookup? I regret “CD” getting pregnant, and the uncertainty of not knowing if it’s my child or her husband’s.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Nothing right now. I can only see the bad.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? “CD” getting pregnant!

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? ALWAYS USE A CONDOM or PROTECTION NO MATTER WHAT!!!

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Not at all positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Very negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I sure hope it’s her husband’s child!!!

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