Current location: Los Angeles
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: TV Producer
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Open to trying anything . . .
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? ~20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 days ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck-buddies?
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I had already hooked up with this guy 3 times before this encounter. We had met on Tinder; our initial meeting involving him coming over to my place, having a few beers and a good romp in the sheets. I felt really good about him since the first time we hooked up. The sexual chemistry between us was extremely natural and comfortable, no awkwardness. Everything seemed to flow as if we were on the same wavelength.
He is easily a good 5 inches shorter than me and I have a bigger frame than him. He is attractive, looking like a cross between Jake Gyllenhaal and Ben Stiller.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The last time we had hooked up, we had tried/experimented with Orgasmic Meditation (OM) on me. It was a really positive and electrifying experience and we had agreed to do it again, and try the male version of it. I had reached out to him via text saying thanks for a great time and that I would be interested in doing it on him. He responded with a link to an article on how OM is done on a male and we made plans to meet at his the following week.
I went over to his place where we got into the hot tub and talked about our week . After the heat just being too much, we went back to his apartment where he finished folding laundry while I got out of my bathing suit. Once he was done he thought it might be time for us to OM.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I first performed as the stroker on him, following each step outlined by the practice. Once the 15 minutes was up, he stroked me for the allotted 15 minutes, taking extra care to massage my legs and thighs. It was wonderfully powerful to listen to someone else describe your genitals, and then doing the same for them. The experience with OM has left me refreshed and invigorated.
Once the OM was done, he then proceeded to go down on me, a skill he is rather proficient at. He took his time and made me orgasm a handful of times. I sat on his face and squirted, he would masturbate while he would go down on me.
When we finished we passed out on his bed. We slept for a couple of hours only to wake up bright and early to have morning sex. Once he came he quickly ran out and got us donuts for breakfast, and with full bellies we continued our romp in the sheets with him giving me a full body massage all on his own accord. With him touching my body ever so seductively, we couldn’t resist and had sex again. We both came after he performed his expert skills at cunnilingus and we had intercourse, switching positions and leaving us both sweating and out of breath.
The hook up ended with us taking a shower together, making out more than actually taking a shower. I got dressed and he walked me out and kissed me goodbye.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I had multiple orgasms as did he. I lost count for myself, he came maybe 2/3 times?
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I have an IUD implanted and we used condoms doing intercourse.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I wanted to have a wonderful sexual experience again with him, I wanted to see him again.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? A six pack between the both of us and a little weed.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hook up, I was a little terrified. While having sex I could feel myself getting closer to him, and after the hook up I had to admit to myself that I might actually be developing feelings for him.
I would love to see him again, to experience something so wonderful with him. I’m not fully certain about a relationship with him, since I believe most common monogamous relationships are not for me. But I would love to date him and see if something could develop. I felt like there was a connection, a spark to keep my going. It all felt so comfortable and natural that it seems like it would be a shame not to pursue something further.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I mentioned it to a best friend via text and his response was that “he sounded dreamy.”
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? This was consensual and a wanted experience for both me and my partner.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I don’t really regret anything about the hook up. Maybe that I didn’t give him enough compliments. He likes to shower me with compliments about my smile, my body or my reactions while we are having sex and I haven’t complimented him nearly enough.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing about this hook up is how I felt afterwards. I felt like I was on cloud 9, a natural high that I wanted to revel in all day. I felt like radiating energy was flowing through my body, filling me with warmth.
The worst thing about this hook up was that I feel that I am now at a fork in the road with this guy. I either see him again and tell him that I might want to pursue something more, with him more than likely not being interested. Or I continue to hook up with him a bury my feelings so that I at least don’t lose the best sex partner I’ve had.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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