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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 61
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Media
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? A little kink
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Lots
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 15

Good Fucking With Pam

How long ago did this hookup happen? 22 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Pam headed up a local office, and we met at a business mixer. She was a few years older, and kind of matronly, but she had a good body, with great legs I dreamed of splitting one day. We flirted a bit and started a funny little relationship.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Pam called one afternoon and asked if I wanted to come over to her office after work. I said sure, why not? All her staff had already left, so it was just us. Pam was wearing a short skirt that accentuated her body and legs. She sat across from me on her desk and kept opening her legs slightly. She knew I was liking it, and I was! I started stroking her legs, which led to my hands going higher. Pam was moaning while my hands were roaming. We started kissing and the next thing I knew, we were undressing.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Pam started sucking my dick and she was good too. She was so good I almost came, but I wanted to fuck her bad. I split those great legs of hers and went down on her. She was dripping wet and ready to fuck. We then fucked on her desk for a long time in lots of positions!

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We fucked each other for months

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? I don’t know

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Don’t know

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Fucked a lady I wanted to fuck.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? To a degree

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Cool site

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