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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? New York City
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Heteroflexible
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 33
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Got Fired? Have a Devil’s Threesome!

How long ago did this hookup happen? Two months

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? It was a Thursday night. I had just got fired from my internship earlier that week. I was determined to get hammered that evening. My friend and I showed up to a notoriously trashy bar. Little did we know, we walked in on a frat event. My friend went to go hit on girls while I sat in the corner, and I began speaking to a girl who went to the same school as I. We bonded and drank together a little. After about half an hour, the liquid courage prompted me to start talking to two older guys around 30 years old. They had no idea there was a frat event going on that night. One was tall, around 6’1, white. The other was shorter, 5’10, Eastern European. Both were very, very cute. They told me that they were childhood friends. We started taking shots and at point the tall one even handed me his credit card to buy more drinks. The girl I was speaking with joined in on the drinks as well. After a while, the girl started making out with the shorter one in the corner of the bar. I continued talking to the tall one, and eventually made out with him. It was soon closing time, and the tall one grabbed my hand to leave the bar to get into a cab. He called for his friend and the girl but only his friend got into the cab with us. I had no idea where we were going, but I didn’t care.

We got out only a couple of minutes later. It was the tall one’s apartment. I stumble up the stairs, content with where this was going. This night was not going to be boring.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We got to his apartment. He lived alone. He offered me a glass of water. They asked me if I wanted a bump of coke and some weed. In drunken stupor I agreed. However, I was conscious and remembered every part of this encounter. The short one assured me that he knew CPR because I was worried that I’d overdose because I had never tried coke before. We smoked a little more and did a few lines before I started making out with both of them. The clothes came off. They had clearly done this before.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We moved to the bed. They took turns making out with me and one of them slid his had down gradually to tease me and then started fingering me. I don’t even remember which guy it was. I gave both guys blowjobs. It was rough; the tall one liked to hold my head down while I went down on him. My hair was grabbed and I loved all of it. We fucked for several hours but most of it was oral because the drugs affected their boners. I blew one of them while the other one was behind me, fingering me and going down on me. The tall one even sat on my face. I was feeling very kinky and uninhibited. At one point, they poured coke on my boobs and snorted it off me. I remember that later on I was hooking up with the short one the bed and looked over to see the tall one on his computer. I said, “What are you doing?” He said, “Checking my email.” I said, “While this is going on? Get your ass over here!” And he literally dove back into action. It was hilarious and amazing.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I got a cab home around 5am when I left with the short one. I took a shower and got into bed when the he texted me “I want to fuck you properly.” I agreed and he came over, then we fucked properly, a little more soberly. He left a couple of hours later, very hungover. Poor guy.

Needless to say, this night was very exhausting. I fucked the short one another time the following week. That time, he made me squirt for the first time ever. I haven’t talked to either since. But this threesome definitely helped me cope with getting fired!

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have, Intoxication, To cheer myself up, Boredom, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, Cocaine

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, Cocaine

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friends. They are mostly shocked and impressed.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was the first threesome I had with two men!

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I lost an earring.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I have always been very open to casual sex, but this was the first time group sex has happened. I am open to it happening again.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex needs to be more accepted. It has made me feel more confident in my sexuality and my womanhood. I love it.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Awesome place to share my most scandalous stories and all of their glorious details.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!