What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Video Producer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 8 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? So she went to the same high school as me, but we didn’t have the same social circles. I was not the most popular person in school, however, I was in a much more public eye than she was so she knew who I was but I didn’t know who she was until the hookup. She had a very cute face, beautiful eyes, she was slightly overweight. She wasn’t fat or obese, but just slightly chubby which doesn’t bother me.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? So I one day discovered craigslist had a section about “casual encounters” and was just curious to see what I could find. I was very careful not to put my face in a photo but put my age (19) and where the city in the ad. I specified that I was not looking for sex but for someone to make out with. I did not feel comfortable with having sex with someone I didn’t now so I thought we would just start out as make out buddies. I then got a reply the next day asking if I was still available and I replied I was and included a picture this time. It took a while for a response but she responded and told me that she knew who I was, that we went to school together. I slightly panicked but she assured me this conversation was between just us. She told me her name and I didn’t remember who she was so I ran up to my room to look at my yearbook (why I didn’t think of Facebook I have no clue). And we agreed to meet in a car at an abandoned parking lot. It was incredible luck. she said she went to CL looking for a puppy and decided to look in casual encounters and decided to respond to mine because it wasn’t all about “fucking” as she put it. And lo and behold she knew me and she admitted to me later that she had a crush on me before that.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We met at the parking lot we agreed to meet at and decided to get into her car (it was cleaner) and we just started making out. I hadn’t kissed a girl for a while and it felt great. She was a very good kisser and it didn’t take long for it to get intense. After a while, I started feeling her breasts which she let me do and it got heated from there. Then she pulled out her right breast (I didn’t ask her to she just did it) and i was able to suck on her tit for a bit. Then I started to sneak my hand down her pants to find a very wet pussy and slowly fingered her. She didn’t orgasm but said she had a great time. But she said she needed to go home and we went our separate ways. However, we couldn’t stop texting and she sent me a nude of her as I did of me and decided that we would meet 2 days later in the same spot. She asked my what my opinion of oral was and said “I don’t know, lets just play it by ear.” So we met up again 2 days later and got down to making out again. It was very satisfying and then we agreed to lose the clothes. So we took off our clothes and it was amazing to see her naked body. I went down and fingered her and her panting became so intense that I had to start licking her and she then couldn’t breathe. She told me she orgasmed and wanted to return the favor. She pushed me back and started giving me a blow job. First time for me and it felt amazing. It didn’t take long until I came and i told her “I’m coming” and she didn’t flinch. She let me come and swallowed which was very hot. We then went our separate ways and then a few months later when we started college we decided to meet again and this time in my dorm when my roommate was gone for the weekend and we had sex. It was both our first time and it was great.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After we had sex, we never met again. I’m married now and so is she and has a kid. I sometimes go to her facebook to reminisce but we don’t talk. But im glad we did what we did. It was what we needed at the time and all is well even now.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, To feel more desirable, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, Boredom
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one. Planning on taking this one to the grave other than on here.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was just fun and the first time I had been with a girl naked.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Her boobs had a weird nipple shape.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It really hasn’t.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
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