What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 51
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Pansexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? More than 100
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1985
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Rhonda was my high school classmate, full figured with big tits. We didn’t hang in the same circles so we didn’t really know each other. Saturday night before graduation, a classmate she hung around with who lived on my street had a keg party.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We started talking on the back patio. Soon, we were all alone on the patio. I leaned in and gave her a kiss. I told her I had to go to the bathroom and that I would be right back unless she wanted to come with me. She followed me into the bathroom.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Once in the bathroom, she watched me pee. This made me so hard. It was a large bathroom with plenty of room. I took off my pants, walked over to her, kissed her, took her shorts off, and fucked her on the floor. Being a horny teenager, I came inside her quickly. By the time we pulled our pants back up and left the bathroom, it had been less than 15 minutes from our first words to our having sex. We grabbed another beer, kept talking, and making out. Later we had sex once more in the backyard. I suggested that we go to my car, which was a few houses down. By the time we got to my car, we’d stopped in one of the neighbors yards and had sex again. And then we had sex two more times in the car. My family and me were moving in less than two weeks so it wasn’t going to be a long relationship. We had sex two more times.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I moved. A few months later, I got a letter from a friend (it was 1985 so no email). She had gotten pregnant and had an abortion. I talked to about ten years later on the phone. She didn’t tell me but we were supposed to have lunch. However, the lunch got cancelled.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Only my friend who told me she had gotten pregnant.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Very
Do you regret this hookup? Very much
Why do you regret this hookup? The pregnancy.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The sex.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The pregnancy.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Unfortunately, I think it led me to believe that one-night stands – even 15-minute stands – were possible. And I’ve had several.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Very negative
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