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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 23
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Clinicals
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation:
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Surprised! Very Suprised!
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Gravel Driveway Hookup – She’s Barely Legal

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 month

What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was four years younger than me. She was the friend of a girl I was dating when we first met. She was a tall, thin, brunette; the oldest of three siblings and barely legal. My favorite part was her being a cheerleader; despite not being a good one. I had a puppy-crush dating period with her when I was in high-school, but now she was older and much more mature. We had gone a few years without talking as we had a “nasty breakup” as all high-school relationships usually do. Anyway, we were hanging out again and she liked me having money and wheels. I liked hanging with her because she was hot.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I’d picked her up at her small-town country home and I drove to the city for a night on the town. Back to the back-to-her-place part, we were hanging out in her driveway just talking for nearly a half-hour. Being as I was her first kiss, we always like to make out, if nothing else “for old times’ sake.” Kissing turned into heavy making out, which turned into grabbing, which turned into my hands in her jeans and finally it turned into my fingers in her pussy. This turned into me sitting in the driveway with her laying across me with me working her jeans down to her knees.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The jeans only got halfway down and her satin, orange-colored panties went to the side. The event was lit only by moonlight. I continued to stimulate her pussy as she was already wet. I was able to get a pant-leg of the jeans off of her ankle and slide her closer and closer to me as we continued to heavily make-out. Using my fingers, I continued to fondle her and work the panty to the side. I was mind-blown I had made it this far. I thought she wouldn’t go for sex. I was still certain she was still a virgin, though I may have assumed wrong. As she got more ready, I got harder. I pulled my cock out of my jeans and boxer briefs and worked the head of my dick closer to her clit. I mumbled a quick, “you ok with this happening?” She confirmed by sinking her tongue back into my mouth. I began to have (what is no doubt the most) comfortable sexual experience ever laying in the gravel! Only a minute or two later, I feel her tense up and squeeze me tight as I do the best I can to have sex with her, unprotected. After what I think was her orgasm, she jumps up uncomfortably, replaces her panties and jeans, and rushes inside the house. I was stunned and scared.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I awaited patiently the next morning for her 10am text. I was so nervous she was upset. The text comes. I can’t text back. I called her and she answered. She seemed okay. I asked her if she was okay and she said yes. I told her that we could avoid anything like that from happening gain. Until the unthinkable happens. She says she wants to do it again sometime!

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? At first she surprised me and I didn’t know what to think, but turns out she loved it. We began to have sex consistently weeks following. I told my friends and they were surprised she let it happen.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The spontaneity!! The panties to the side!

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The FUCKING GRAVEL!

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Hard to beat, but a couch or bed sure is swell.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Young girls, man…young girls.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I turned into a major man-whore from 24-28 so I shouldn’t say it does anything good.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great late-night reads.

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