What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Great Head, Nice Apartment

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 days

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I had met C on Tinder and we hit it off pretty well. After some chatting, I offered to show her some of best places for happy hour since she had just moved to the city. We meet at this great bar where happy hour is quite cheap.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? When I meet her in front of the bar, I could tell she was totally into me. The bar downstairs had too many people so we had to go to the upstairs bar in a secluded room. Which was perfect. After some drinks and time, I started to touch her back. Low and behold she starts shaking. I asked her if she was sensitive and she replied yes. I then proceeded to touch her thighs, neck, etc. Basically teasing her. I will say I am a self-admitted teaser. After we got another drink, I tried her gin and tonic which was actually pretty awful. I told her I needed to wash the taste out my mouth, she offered to have me try some chocolate wine at her place. I said I wanted to wash out my mouth with something else….let’s say she ordered the Uber promptly after hearing me say that!

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Got back to her place and we make out for a bit. None of her roommates were there so it was perfect. She has a really nice apartment so I made her give me a tour of it. When we got to the bedroom she told me I should see how comfortable her bed was, I did. She jumped on top of me and started to dry hump me. I took off her dress and saw that her boobs were at least a C. I gave them some love and told her we should try out her dining room table.

When we got to her dining room table, I ate her out for probably 15mins in which she came a lot. When I stopped, I noticed the table was soaked. She kissed me and told me I am amazing. She started to suck my black cock, which was probably the best head I have ever gotten.

I stopped her and said we should try out her balcony. I expected her to suck my dick out there but to my surprise, she sat me in the chair and rode me cowgirl without a condom. I later found out she has an IUD.

To end this story we basically fucked raw for about 2 hours. She was somewhat disappointed because I couldn’t cum, but I have never cum from sex before which she was shocked.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? It felt great, it was my first hookup after breaking up with my ex of 4 years. As C and I cuddled, she said she had never had sex that long before and that she lost count of how many times she had cum. She was also somewhat impressed and shell shocked that I didn’t cum in like 10 mins like most guys. I hope to continue hooking up with her, she is great in bed and can take a pounding.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) IUD (Intrauterine device)

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have, Intoxication, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, Power / Dominance

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Friends mostly

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Her apartment, the after sex compliments, her head game, and the fact her cowgirl is on point.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? She told me she came multiple times but during the hookup, I couldn’t tell whether she had cum or if it was the build up to it so sometimes I would stop just before I could get her off.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, it’s far easier to have sex with people if you’re bold.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? The girl was shaking like a salt shaker.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s a great way to express your sexuality. It shouldn’t be judged.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great project!

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