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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Malaysia
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Sales Officer
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Straight. Had fantasies of m4m
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Under 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Groped by Another Guy

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 days ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? It was a Friday morning about 8.30am while I was still asleep after a whole night out of drinking with friends. There were plumbers in the house and I could feel one of them inside my room. I was shirtless and wearing jersey shorts, my legs were exposed and i was sleeping sideways with half covered by blanket.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Though asleep I could feel someone standing very near me. He walkie-talkied to someone in Malay that he will be late then I heard my door lock. Suddenly I felt my blanket moving aside and hands feeling my thighs. By this time I was pretending to be asleep, knowing what was happening.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Hands all over my thighs and then I could feel my shorts being pulled off. His hands were feeling my bum too at this point. It was then I felt a warm tongue on my butt and a finger around the anal opening. He suddenly pulled me to lie straight and he grabbed my cock and then I felt another warm feeling. Opened my eyes a little and he was sucking on my cock!

Never experienced this before but not that I like it but it was a funny feeling.

Next he came closer to my body and licked on my chest to the neck and kissed deeply. Moved to my ear and licked it.

Finally, his cock was right by my mouth and he slowly rubbed it against my face. He shot his cum on my face, pulled his pants and then left, not before writing his number on a paper and putting it in my mouth.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I didn’t call him or text but I heard that the plumbers were coming back the next week. Thought to myself if I slept with my mouth open, a cock would enter my mouth.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Learning new things, experimenting, thought it was an important experience to have

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? I don’t know

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? A new experience. Always fantasised but never acted. Would love to have more similar experiences.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not okay with cumshot on the face.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Ntg

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Good

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