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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? England
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Prefer not to say
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Adventurous, non-judgemental
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Group sex after years of marriage

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 weeks

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She is in her late 30’s, a brunette – a good figure with a few extra pounds. She advertised a gangbang on an escort site. I’ve never met her before. She was attractive, and having just finished a sexless marriage, I wanted my first sexual encounter to be memorable.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had a fantasy about being one of several guys fucking a woman. This woman was my opportunity to fulfill the fantasy. I started thinking about it during my divorce, but waited until afterwards to do it. I didn’t have to plan anything, just arrange with her to turn up. She is an escort who occasionally does gangbang meetings with multiple guys. She was to be the only woman present. There were a small number of other gangbang meets advertised on the website, but this lady had good feedback and would last twice as long as the others (3 hours). She also advertised that unprotected sex was available, and I wanted that experience.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? My purpose in attending a group sex party was to experience sex with a woman who was really into sex and wanted as many guys as she could get. This is the complete opposite of my ex-wife. I was first to arrive at her place. We chatted for a bit, including with her husband (who didn’t join in with the sex, but did watch closely). They have an open relationship, attended swinging parties, and enjoyed making money from sex. Some guys were a bit late with traffic, but there were five of us when we got going. Some had seen her for a gangbang before. Some were first timers.

Everyone stripped off, and I was surprised I didn’t feel awkward being naked with other guys – we all knew what we were there for. We were all different ages and body types. Nobody had a small cock, but I guess mine was the largest. She got on the bed in doggy position and asked who was first. Everyone hesitated as they wanked while looking at her pussy. Eventually someone got on the bed and slid his cock inside her. She was wet, and he just slid right in. He was fucking her – nobody was here to make love. She encouraged him to fuck her hard and use her like the cum slut she was. She was keen that we all knew she loved sex, and in particular her love of cum. By this time we were all keen to have a go, and he withdrew without cumming. I went around to her mouth so she could suck me and let another two guys take their turns fucking her, the second being the first to cum inside her. I then took up position behind her and entered her wet, warm, and sloppy pussy. To use another guys cum as lubrication was part of my fantasy. She was so wet that there was little friction between us for a while. I was really turned on, but wanted to last, so I pulled out to let another guy fuck her. All the time she was clearly enjoying the attention. I secretly wiped some of the wetness from her with my finger and tasted it – when else was I going to taste another guys cum and some pussy too? I wasn’t too fussed about it, but she clearly loves it.

Soon enough it was my turn again, and everyone else had cum inside her. So, I entered her with four other guys cum lubricating her pussy. I’d seen their cum dripping from her lips as I entered her, it was like my very own porn movie. I fucked her hard as she sucked on another two cocks and the others wanked off to the view. I almost pulled out of her when I was ready to cum, and so I saw my cum dripping out of her mixed in with all the other guys. I was very tempted to go down on her, cum and all, but didn’t.

We took a short break and chatted. She told us a bit about her other gangbangs, and going to swinging parties. She’d done some porn too, which I’ve looked for on porn sites since. Her husband told us what a cum slut she was, and how he enjoyed watching her get fucked by other guys. He seemed to get on well with the guys that had been before. It made me think about what it’d be like to see my ex-wife get fucked by another guy or guys. We hadn’t had sex in years, and I think I’d have enjoyed sharing her, but sadly she didn’t have any sex drive, let alone the kinky side I would have loved her to have.

On to the final session, and she wanted us all to cum on her face. She’d been to the loo, but her pussy still had our cum in it. We went around and round in a circle between her pussy and mouth, sometimes sucking two of us at a time. Eventually we all came on her face. Some went in her mouth, and she swallowed it, licking her lips. The rest she left on her face until we had all cum as many times as we could. I managed twice. I used my cock to push some of the cum into her mouth. Finally, she pushed it all into her mouth and swallowed it with a big smile. She gave us all a final suck clean, and we were done for the night. We got dressed, had some small talk, and then left with smiles all over our faces. We left her smiling too.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She was keen to repeat the experience, but having done it once, I don’t feel the need to repeat the experience. Having said that, it was fun, and felt great at the time, so I might repeat it again sometime given the opportunity. I was concerned about an STI, so have visited local clinic. All clear so far.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react?  I have only spoken to the guys that attended the session. A couple had done this before and were keen to keep repeating the experience. It was the first time for the others. Only one person said they were in a relationship, the others stated they were single. Everyone enjoyed it, and would be happy to repeat it. I haven’t spoken to my friends about this experience. We don’t really talk about sexual experiences, and I would be nervous about talking of going with an escort in a group. It would be good to talk to someone about the experience, and this website helps a bit.

I did talk to the nurse at the sexual health clinic about having unprotected sex with an escort in a group. I obviously didn’t talk about sexual details. She was non-judgmental, which was a relief. Although she did talk about protection, and risk of STIs, she wasn’t as pushy as I would have expected.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Fulfilling a fantasy. I wasn’t sure if fantasies are best kept in your head, but in this case, it turned out to be as good in real life as in my head. The feeling of fucking a woman straight after another guy is great – warm, wet and slippery. But above all I enjoyed being with a woman who really enjoyed sex to the point of openly admitting to being a slut. I wish everyone could be that unreserved.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Concern over catching an STI, although not enough to stop me thinking about unprotected sex again.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? This was always meant to be a casual encounter with someone I didn’t know. I don’t expect to experience this with a real girlfriend. But, while I am not looking for a serious relationship, I think that I should take the opportunity to fulfil some other fantasies and stretch my sexual boundaries. Having just got divorced, enjoying sex is more important than a relationship for now, and I intend to spend some time focussing on casual sex. I have since had sex with a beautiful brunette escort who is way out of my league, but that’s another story…

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? The woman is clearly an escort who hooks up for gangbangs on occasion, and clearly loves sex – a lot. I was hesitant about unprotected sex with an escort and multiple other guys who see them for bareback sex. But it was the only way I was going to fulfil this fantasy, and I don’t regret it. Having spoken to those that regularly have bareback sex, they all get tested and none have caught anything yet, although would they admit to it? I am still hesitant about unprotected sex with an escort, but would unprotected sex with a one night stand be any riskier?

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I had a fair few sexual partners before getting married, and never cheated on any of them. I will continue to be like that. Sex before marriage was always with someone I had met in a social setting and wanted to go out with, so not really casual sex. Now I am single again following a long-term relationship, I am much more keen to enjoy casual sex. Maybe a relationship develops, maybe it doesn’t, but either way, I am not specifically looking for a relationship from the get-go.

Having now used an escort, it opens up many more possibilities for casual sex – I can choose what kind of woman, and what types of sexual activities. I will definitely use an escort again while outside of a relationship.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it s an interesting social record of peoples attitude to casual sex

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