What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Dayton, OH
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Account Executive
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 1
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 months
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? His name was J and he was a tall, muscular bald headed black guy. He was in the same general age range as I am and was also traveling on business and staying at the same hotel I was. He had an infectious smile and was a huge flirt who I am sure could have charmed the panties off of mother Theresa.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I met him at the evening social hour at a residence inn where I was staying. I went down to grab dinner and a glass of wine and was sitting by myself when he approached and asked if I minded if he sat and ate at the table I was at alone. All of the other tables were full so I said yes and he sat down.
I was embarrassed when he asked to refill my wine and brought back a full glass along with a full just opened bottle from the dinner serving line. Every time, I took a sip he topped my glass off. He had a very warm and inviting smile and personality.
After dinner, I was already a bit tipsy from the full bottle of wine he emptied in my glass and the two glasses I had before he arrived. I didn’t eat much since we were talking and he told me he had a bottle of wine in his room if I wanted to join him for a “nightcap”. I knew better but went back with him telling him how I was married, He persisted this was just two business travelers sharing a glass of wine.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As soon as we got into his room, I told J I was cold, mainly to put a blanket over me. he turned the heat way up and then poured me a glass of wine and I sat on the couch in the room as he went into the bathroom to “change”. He returned a few minutes later in only a pair of boxer briefs with an exceptionally large bulge in the front. He poured himself a straight glass of some sort of liquor and we sat and he had me laughing with his great sense of humor.
After the glass of wine, I was pretty drunk and told him I was burning up. I was wearing a long sweater dress and a pair of black tights with knee length boots. J moved over and pulled my boots off and told me to relax as he poured me another full glass of wine which I did not need. I was still sweating and he pulled the sweater dress up over my shoulders and I let him take it off me. I was now sitting in my tights, socks, and bra on his couch. I knew I needed to get up and leave but I was mesmerized by the attention and his muscular body.
It was not long and he had my legs up on his lap and he was sitting beside me. He began rubbing my legs over my tights and then reached in and said I was still sweating and pulled the tights off my hips as I raised my hips and let him pull them down my legs. He rubbed my legs and complimented me while I was left in only my mom panties. He moved my foot on his lap until it was in direct contact with his crotch and I could feel his rock-hard, massive cock against my calf as he massaged my legs and began kissing his way up my chin and thigh. he spent some time kissing around the leg openings of my panties and then moved up and began kissing my lower belly at the waistband of my panties. Finally, he reached inside the waistband and pulled my panties off tossing them to the floor. He continued licking me working on my pussy and I had a huge climax from his oral skills.
J got up and pulled his tight boxers off and put his amazing black hard cock to my face. It was enormous from what I was used to and I did my best to take him into my mouth. My jaw was sore by the time he began to grunt and his cock exploded inside my mouth with a huge load of cum. I had never had cum in my mouth before and was not sure what to do but kept sucking and swallowed what I could manage.
Once J finished, he picked me up from the couch and carried me naked into the bedroom placing me on the bed. He climbed in beside me as I told him I should go but I didn’t move as he spooned up against me kissing my neck and kissing me. His warm body felt so good I just lay there as his hand began to explore my soaking wet pussy. Finally, I couldn’t stand it anymore and I told him to fuck me which he wasted no time in pushing his massive cock up inside me.
My pussy was so filled and he was really pounding me harder than I have ever been fucked before. I began to orgasm again and was shaking and breathing hard as J began to climax and pushed himself deeply inside me. I finally fell to sleep in his arms as we both were breathing hard and our hearts were racing.
I woke up still in J’s arms with him up against me as the sun began to rise and shine through the open curtains of his bedroom. When I moved J woke and began to finger me once again. It felt good and although I had to pee I lay there letting him work his magic on me. he pulled me up onto my hand and knees and knelt behind me as he kissed his way down my neck and back until he reached my ass. He used his tongue running it down my crack making me get goose bumps all over before he moved up and I felt his hard cock press against my pussy once again. It was not long and he was fully inside me once again and using a slow rhythm as he pressed a finger inside my ass which felt really good once it was in. I orgasmed again and was tired as he was still going.
J leaned down and asked if he could put it inside my ass and I told him I didn’t think it would fit. He told me he would be easy and as he was talking I felt pressure from his cock pressing inside my ass. It hurt like hell but I wanted to make him happy and soon it was bearable. It took him about five minutes until he blew a load inside me and we both kissed and I dressed and left his room.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was aching and sore all day the next day. My ass hurt and I was leaking cum even after taking a shower. The sex was amazing and I wanted more but when I got back that evening J’s room was vacant and outside of his first name I had no idea who he was or where he was from.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Intoxication, I was feeling lonely, Submission / Relinquishing power, Boredom, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My sister
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively negative
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? Cheating
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Oh my god, the sex was the most amazing thing I have ever felt
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I don’t even know who he was or where he lives or anything about him.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I probably wouldn’t do it again, but I am glad I did
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I don’t really know. We are in a religious family and sex is dirty and evil so it is hard to look at from another aspect now.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I enjoy it but hope I am ok reading it.
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