What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 48
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Ireland
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
How long ago did this hookup happen? 15 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a workmate, cute and very personable…perhaps a little shy….I liked him.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Coming to Christmas, a drinks evening was scheduled for people working on our floor. I was single and feeling in need of a little attention. G at my office had taken my eye and with the party coming, I decided to get his attention and show interest. In preparation, I dressed in a nice outfit – tight skirt, with black panties and bra and stockings beneath. Chatting with G, it was clear he was interested – he’d split from his girlfriend recently. After a few drinks in the office, a group decided to move to a nearby bar a little more distance away. Walking through the grounds of the office complex with G, we slowed down and fell behind……we kissed a little and one thing led to another…
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? There was a a little groping and he was a little reticent….I was ready for more! I took his hand and brought it under my skirt to my thigh and rubbed it along my stocking top. He groaned and it did not take long before he became more assertive and moved to cup and squeeze my pussy mound through my panties. I suggested we go into an empty office area…once there I popped my breasts out of my bra and he licked and sucked on them. We were soon pulling at each other and clothes were being removed….this was when I saw his cock – he was surprising for an averagely built man: very well hung with nice heavy balls! Leaning against a desk he fingered me and I made it clear he could have me. I laid back and he slipped my wet panties off. I spread my legs and he entered…as he thrust he sucked on my nipples and I loved his size. With the intense excitement it did not take long for him to start growing even longer and thicker and I knew he was about to come. I told him it was safe and with that I felt a gush of hot cum which made me come really hard. We began to laugh, then cleaned up, and left happily to rejoin the group with broad smiles on our faces…
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Saw each other a few times, some fun along the way but nothing further developed, and that was fine for all.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, To feel better about myself
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? One or two pals…they were intrigued.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Great sex!
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? No regrets!
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Sometimes it’s fun to have fun…
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great forum
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