What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Budapest
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Looking to learn
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
He Ate Me Like I Was His Last Supper
How long ago did this hookup happen? Just today
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’d describe A as a very good looking guy. He sometimes works as a model and in movies so he tends to take care of himself as his income depends on his looks. A is tall, brown skinned, muscular, smells great, great fashion sense AND his beard connects! Pretty much a 10/10 looks wise for me. I met A one night when I went out with a friend after he noticed me dancing and came to say hi. At first I didn’t really pay him any mind because he seemed like the player type and some girl was all over him, but after a while we chatted a bit and he was really sweet and we exchanged numbers. The only sour moment when we met was when I saw him making out with the girl that was all over him before (He didn’t know I saw this happening). After seeing that, I decided to leave the club and forget about him. However things didn’t work out that way (obviously lol)
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? So after the club incident, A kept trying to contact me and at first I wasn’t really receptive but his kindness, attentiveness and persistence got me. We met a couple times for coffee and just to talk, nothing sexual. He was always respectful but also flirted enough. i was really enjoying his company and he made me feel comfortable so I decided he’d be a good candidate to have sex with. The thing is, I haven’t had sex in over a year and I’ve been progressively been getting horny. I’d normally just masturbate to get over it but it got to the point that I just wanted some to be touched by someone else. I typically would rather be in a relationship to have sex but my dating well has run dry and I literally haven’t had any suitable potentials at all this year so A seemed like a blessing.
A and I met up today and walked around town running a few errands. Eventually, we got some plantains and we went back to his place to cook them. A doesn’t really like to eat much and so he smokes weed some days to work up an appetite. He rolled a blunt and asked if I wanted to hit it. Normally I don’t smoke because I tend to get paranoid but I took a couple puffs. We move to his room to watch a documentary and that’s when it all went down.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were chilling on the bed and eventually end up cuddling. He started to fondle my breast and starts to lick it. He just knew what to touch and suck to make me feel good. He took off my shorts and started to eat me out. When he started, I was a little hesitant. I hadn’t come prepared for any action. Us walking around during the day meant that I was a bit sweaty and I hadn’t done my pre-sex routine (basically ensuring the pussy area is hairless and smelling sweet ) so I was a little self-conscious. A didn’t care and dove into my pussy face first. I FUCKING LOVED IT!
Normally when guys have kissed my kitty they’ve given lackluster performances but not A. He ate my pussy like his last supper. His tongue rocked my body with every lick. I was shaking and moaning like crazy. He made me cum hard, and this is the first time that someone (other than myself) has made me cum. He ate it from the front, he ate it from the back, he licked me the FUCK out. After I came, I returned the favor and gave him a blowjob. I sucked him slow first, teasing him then eventually cranked up the pace while stroking him. I kept going and he was moaning and it just made me hornier. I loved hearing his pleasure. I wanted him to cum like he made me cum but he stopped me and asked if he could fuck me. I hadn’t planned on having sex but I was so horny, I said yes.
He ate me out from the back, made me cum again and then stuck his dick in me from the back. His dick was thick and long and I was shaking when he first stuck it in me. He started slow and eventually got into his rhythm. At one point he was fucking me, he reached around and started rubbing my clit. IT. WAS. AMAZING!!! He had so much stamina and such a good stroke game. I’ve never experienced sex like this like he has that grown man dick and was so focused on giving me pleasure. It was game changing for me.
Unfortunately, the fact that I smoked before meant that was paranoid and as after 20 minutes I started to worry and decided we needed to stop. He hadn’t come yet but he was cool about it. I asked how he managed to last so long and he said he doesn’t cum easily but mainly also because of the condom.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I wasn’t really ready to have sex and the fact that I was a little high made me a little paranoid. So although I said yes, I wish we had waited till I was ready and not high. This is not to say the sex was bad but I didn’t get into it as I normally would because I was in my head too much. Also, I don’t often have sex and so I was self-conscious about everything. I wished I was more relaxed.
I think we’re gonna do it again soon but next time I’ll be ready.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’ but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I haven’t spoken to anyone yet. When I told my best friend about meeting him she said I should forget him because he was kissing someone else the first night we met. So she doesn’t know we kept seeing each other.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat
Why do you regret this hookup? I just didn’t feel ready and it made me self-conscious and so I held back. Also, I shouldn’t have smoked.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? He was so attentive, he was solely focused on pleasuring me and I’ve never had that.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He didn’t come, I love it when my partners come. I’m gonna make him come next time though 😉
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I’m still getting used to having casual sex but this has been a positive experience overall.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Fellas focus on your woman’s pleasure. You don’t know how much it changes things for her.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s really great, it’s nice to read other stories.
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