What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
He Made Me Squirt
How long ago did this hookup happen? A week ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We had started chatting on Tinder a few months ago. I thought he was insanely hot in his pictures, long blonde hair, red beard and I liked his style. Our conversation kind of just fell off and we stopped talking to my disappointment. But a few weeks ago we reconnected and I gave him my number.
It was Friday night and I had just planned on staying in when I decided to text him.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I headed over to his place. He opened the door and was just as hot in person as in his photos. We spent the next couple hours drinking, smoking weed, listening to music and talking. I was getting a little impatient, it was getting really late and I thought he wasn’t going to make a move. But then he started feeling me up and we quickly started making out.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were all over each other. He was kissing and fondling my breasts when I reached down to feel his cock. It felt so big and hard through his pants and really turned me on. He asked me to suck his cock. I happily got down on my knees between his legs and took him in my mouth. After sucking and playing with him for awhile I told him he should take me to his room. We laid down on the bed and he started touching my pussy. He was shocked at how wet I was. He immediately exclaimed he was going to make me squirt. I told him I never had and in my mind I was thinking, “No way is that going to work.” He told me to lie on my back with my head hanging off the bed. He stuck his cock in my mouth and started rubbing my pussy hard. Lo and behold he did it. He was very pleased with himself and me. I was very happy and surprised. After that he fucked me, hard. Doggystyle then I got on top of him. He was so deep inside of me, I was gushing all over him. His cock was so big and it hurt a little, but I loved it. We then switched back to doggystyle, I didn’t think I could take anymore when he pulled out and came on my ass.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We lay there for a bit, talking about what we had just done. I love talking about sex, so I am glad he was into it. It was almost 4AM and I had stuff to do in the morning so I didn’t want to stay over. We got dressed and he walked me down to my car. I felt great about it the next day, but a little sore. I really hope I see him again and would love to hook up with him regularly.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend. She is in a committed relationship and is always excited to hear about it when I hook up with someone.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was as good as I imagined it being. I was super comfortable with him and was so excited because he was so hot and we had a lot in common and got along great.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I regretted going home, he had told me to stay the night and I wish I had.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think its great. I don’t like the negative connotations women often get for enjoying casual sex and would like to see that change. It has become a bigger part of my life as I am single and not looking for a relationship. For the most part I have had great experiences with casual sex and often walk away with fun, new desires.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s great!
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