by blair

Gender: female
Age: 21
Race/ethnicity: white
Current location: florida
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: student
Relationship status: single
Religious affiliation: none
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? whatever goes
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? over 100
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

He Said I Can Share His Bed

How long ago did this hookup happen? three weeks

How would you best classify this hookup? multiple night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? he’s the quintessential hipster- scruffy goatee, slicked hair that’s long on top and short on the sides. skinny, wears flannel. baby face. i met him maybe twice before at a bar and have plenty of mutual friends, mostly talking on facebook. i thought he was cute and funny, and we had a ton in common.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? i needed a place to crash for a few nights while my roommate was out of town and i couldn’t stay at her place (i’m crashing there, and don’t have a key). i ran out of money for a motel and he offered on facebook to host me for a few days. i showed up at his apartment and he has no furniture beyond his bed. he told me that he didn’t want me on the floor so i can share the bed- literally a twin mattress on the floor. i laid down next to him, talking about mikhail bulgakov, and suddenly we were cuddled up and kissing. we both instigated it.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? we had an hour long session of mutual oral and then doggy- i had to tell him i like it rough. he was very sweet and gentle, but got super into pulling my hair. we came at the same time and i came more than once.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? just used a condom.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? i found myself horny and finding him hot now that we were having a one on one conversation somewhere not a noisy bar.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? we smoked a joint beforehand.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? all that happened was we fell asleep. i felt great about it; we hooked up every morning and night the three days i was there. i haven’t spoken to him since and don’t really care if we do or not again.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? i told a few friends and they weren’t shocked. i have a lot of casual sex and it was kind of just another story from me about a hook up.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? oh yeah. he started the cuddling first.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? nope! it was awesome!

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? definitely when he told me how good my oral skills are and how he got more into the kinkiness as it went along. hasn’t changed anything beyond my confidence levels and feeling attractive.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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