Current location: Australia
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Relationship status: Married
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
He was Way Out of My League
How long ago did this hookup happen? Lasted 2 months, finished last week.
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short fling
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met Dany (not his real name) under very stressful circumstances, I had just hit a car while driving and had to be somewhere else asap. I happened to hit that car outside his house and he was about to leave but he stayed and tried to help since I was very distressed, he then asked for my number, which I did give to him. I remember he was good looking but I seriously didn’t pay attention to him, the only thing I remembered after we met was he being very blonde and very blue eyed, with Middle Eastern facial features, I’ve always got a thing for Middle Eastern men. He called me that day and we spoke briefly, I then ignored him for a couple of weeks but decided to text him via Whatsapp one day, he changed his profile picture for one of him and I said to myself: “why didn’t I call him before?? This man is gorgeous!” He was totally out of my league being out-of-this-world HOT and so we started texting, sending each other pics, and we agreed on meeting that week.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met in his house (he’s also married, his family was overseas) and effectively he was dreamy, the most gorgeous man I’ve seen in the flesh. We had dinner, talked a lot, had a great time together. He then went to the kitchen and lit up a cigarette and stood leaning on the back door looking at the garden, I asked him what he was doing and he said he was “regaining his strength”, I asked him if I was draining it from him and he said “something like that”, then he came and sat next to me and said “you’ve got beautiful lips, can I taste them?” and that was all I needed to jump on him and kiss him. We made out for a really long time. He always said how nice my lips were and I was happy to realize he meant it. He was really good kisser, the best kisser I’ve had in my life hands down, lots of tongue, very passionate, it really turned me on.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? One of the most memorable hookups we had was the last one, just last week, 2 days before his family came back from overseas, we both knew that if we happened to meet again it would not be anytime soon, so we gave it our all.
We agreed on meeting at 6pm, he texted me at 6 sharp asking how much longer I needed, we live 7 minutes away from each other so I was there within 10 mins. I knocked on the door and he hugged me, then we sat in the lounge room and talked for about 15 minutes before I kissed him and basically attacked him. I am a very sexual person and somewhat aggressive when it comes to sex, so I am drawn to “alpha males” for lack of a better term, I need the sex to be hot and sweaty and very passionate to keep going for it, luckily with Dany it was much better than I expected, actually it blew my mind. I sat on top of him while kissing him and running my hands all over his body, I remember pulling his hair and he saying he liked it. He then kissed my neck and my shoulders reeeeeeeeeeal good and for a long time he sucked my nipples and then we took our clothes off. I kissed his neck, his chest, his back, bit his shoulders, bit his ass, and then I proceeded to suck his dick. I kneeled in front of him while he was sitting on the couch and sucked his dick, balls, crotch, asshole, everything, I literally feasted on his body. I took a quick shower and when I came out he had candles lit on, my favourite music on tv, the heater on, he always did that for me, he was a very considerate guy and that won me over from day one. I sat in the living room and he brought me a cup of coffee which I didn’t drink, I went straight for him instead, he pushed me down to the floor and we 69’d for a long time, he was not afraid of getting down and dirty and that made for very good sex. He then fucked me doggy style while asking me “are you my bitch?” and pulled my hair, of course I told him I was his bitch, I would have said yes to anything he asked me in that moment. After that I rode him and came twice, I was starting to get tired so he fucked me in missionary position between kisses and moans, then we used toys on each other, we had another session of oral sex and I asked him where he wanted to cum, he said in my mouth and I happily obliged, drinking all of him till the last drop.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? The first time he did but I didn’t. After the second time I was able to orgasm 2-3 times in a row.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We used protection every time. We didn’t see the need to discuss STI history.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I had a year long affair that ended abruptly and I was looking for someone to replace him because I’ve got a high sex drive and need to have sex regularly otherwise I don’t function optimally. Dany was always clear from the beginning so I never expected that from him, in any case I am so happy I contacted him because it was amazing.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes. We smoked hash a few times during various encounters, not as much as to get stoned, just enough to relax and loosen up. In one occasion though, I was down with the flu (that I got from him) and we also smoked some hash that night, all I remember is I fell asleep while he mouthfucked me for over 30 minutes, it was good.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I know we will never have anything serious for obvious reasons, we are both married and though my relationship with my husband is very strained, his isn’t, so I don’t expect anything from him now or in the future. However, I would like to see him again and have mind-blowing sex one more time.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just my closest friends. They said “enjoy it while it lasts!” and I approached the whole thing with that mentality.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Consensual.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not in a million years.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The BEST thing is that I got to have extremely good sex with someone impossibly gorgeous. The WORST thing is that he set the stakes too high and it will be very difficult to come across someone like him again.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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