What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Washington DC
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Head at work
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Cindy, not her real name, was short and was somewhere in between thick and too thick. She was Hispanic so she had a nice plump ass on her and her titties were pretty big too. We met at work, she was hired after me and we had probably worked together for over a year.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had previously flirted at work, and talked playfully dirty to each other before. She told me about the time she met a woman at a bar and after some drinks they were in the bathroom with the girl eating her out.
It all began at work, another coworker and I were leaving, Cindy and another coworker were there to take over for us. Me and Cindy flirted some in the lounge area after I got off. She had on leggings so I slapped her hard on the ass, she really liked that.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? A few minutes after her shift started, I stayed around and she was able to step away for few minutes. It was past midnight and it was the weekend, so the building was empty.
We hopped on the elevator and went to a higher floor, one that I felt confident would be empty. On the higher floor, we made our way to the men’s bathroom. Sometimes the bathrooms have motion censored lights but not this one.
We got a few feet in the bathroom and I started feeling her up and down. Rubbing on her ass then putting my hand up her shirt to grab her titties. Cindy was enjoying it and I was ready to fuck her right there. She turned around, pulled my dick out and got on her knees. During our previous dirty talk she said she could suck dick good, my response was showing her an online video and telling her that’s how I liked my dick sucked. Cindy had a great memory because her mouth felt amazing. Her head was so damn wet and she had the perfect hand and neck rotations down packed! Back and forth she viscously went for a few minutes, no way I was lasting long with that amazing head. When I knew I was about to nut, I asked “Do you want me to tell you when I’m about to cum?” She said no! She kept going and I let one off in her mouth without verbal warning, only a little bit escaped to her chin and shirt.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Things did not get weird for us, in fact the following weekend we worked together and I got her to suck my dick one last time. Since it was just the 2 of us, we didn’t need to go to a bathroom, it happened in the office.
She snuck some Hennessy white in and after drinking some of that I was ready for some more super head.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Power / Dominance
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Only two of my closest friends, I think she told one coworker but I’m not certain.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I’ve gotten head from some hall of famers and from some who couldn’t eat jello without biting, she made her way onto my mount Rushmore of head. I fantasize about her sucking my dick a lot.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Didn’t get the head more times, and that I had a gf and she was married.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? She moved shortly after and I’ve only spoken to her once or twice since, as wild as she is if we ever meet again round 3 seems likely.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex is great when it’s clearly understood that’s what both sides want.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Very interesting website, love to read the stories.
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