What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 46
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What country and/or city do you live in? New Zealand
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Co director
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 47
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Numerous
How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is The Struggling Artist – featuring in 2 earlier stories. He’s my current best FB (I still see the Couple and have a few other fringe people on the scene). He is tall, thin, smiley, easygoing. He used to have long hair but he’s just had a haircut. Last time I saw him we were both sick. Then I didn’t see him for 3 weeks until yesterday’s hookup.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We texted and liaised and set up a meeting late on a Saturday afternoon. He was working Saturday day and then again sat night (DJ) so only had a few hours. I was meant to be seeing the couple sat night but they had childcare issues and cancelled. I ended up pleased they did because this hookup totally wiped me out.
In preparation I showered and shaved etc and wore a dark blue sheer lace very short negligee which didn’t really cover anything.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Last time we had really different sex because we were both unwell. This time we were both feeling great and just went at it!
I let him in and he kissed me, his tongue probing in my mouth. We went to the kitchen to get a drink but we couldn’t stop kissing long enough to get it. He pushed my negligee aside and got my breasts out. He sucked my nipples quite hard, his hands on my butt, I pulled his shirt off and ran my hands down his back and into his jeans feeling his butt.
Then he dropped to his knees and started licking my clit while I was standing in my kitchen. Then he used his fingers and tongue together to finger me, stroke and lick me and he was so amazingly good at this I came fast and squirted all over the floor.
My knees were weak but I managed to lead him to my bedroom. I took his jeans and undies off him then dropped to my knees and licked and sucked his cock while playing with his balls. He moaned and fucked my face, not too hard. He played with my nipples and then I used my hands to squeeze my breasts around his cock while I sucked the head so he could titfuck me. After a short while he stopped, he said he didn’t want to cum yet.
I turned around and climbed onto my bed, on my hands and knees so he’d get that view from behind. I thought he’d fuck me but instead he bent down and ate me from behind. It felt amazing and I came and squirted again. By now I was insanely wet and he was saying ‘your pussy is so beautiful, so yummy, I love it, I love to eat you’. The whole thing was heavenly.
Then he did fuck me from behind, really really hard and he is very big (8 inches) but mainly girth-wise he is huge and it felt incredible. I was moaning so loud I was slightly worried about the neighbours but I couldn’t stop it. I came again and squirted again I could feel it running down my legs. Again he suddenly stopped, as he still didn’t want to cum.
We had a brief break as I was trembling and a bit weak and he held me and stroked my back til I calmed down. Then I remembered we’d talked about anal in our messages. We tried it once and it was tricky and didn’t quite work. I haven’t done a lot of anal and he’s so big. We’d talked about using one of my toys first to see if it helped so I got my lube and a vibrating anal toy out and he watched while I put it in. He liked watching that.
After I turned it on he licked my clit and fingered me and I had ANOTHER massive squirting orgasm. Then he fucked me with the toy still vibrating and it was incredible for both of us. He could feel the vibration inside and also on his balls. He sort of came but he stopped it which he’s been working on. He withdrew and paused and he was still mostly hard. I took the toy out and put my legs over his shoulders and he slowly and gently pushed his cock into my arse. He was really really slow and he played with my clit at the same time. I came again and at that point he was able to thrust right into me. He kept playing with my clit while fucking my arse and I went into an extremely crazy prolonged squirting orgasm. My whole body started to shake uncontrollably. He was being quite gentle with me and then withdrew and went back to fucking my pussy really hard. By this time I’d been in almost constant orgasm and the feeling of him inside me filling me up kept it going and going, it was so intense. He said he could feel my cum running over his balls. I moved my legs so one was straight up over his shoulders and the other was at right angles flat on the bed, so we had an interesting angle. Every thrust made me moan and yell and I was still shaking all over. Everything was so wet and squelchy as he was also really sweaty. I wondered if I was too wet now! I brought my leg that was over his shoulder down to my other leg so I now had my legs together and to the side to create a good angle and a tighter feeling. He thrust a few more times then came, collapsing exhausted on top of me.
I felt absolutely exhausted and don’t think I’ve ever orgasmed and squirted that much before. I feel so lucky, it was unbelievably good!
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We lay together panting and recovering for quite a while, then talked about the sex and how amazing it had been. Then I got a bottle of champagne from the fridge and we got under the covers and chatted and drank it for the next hour or so. Then he had to go to work. He got dressed, kissed me and we said til next time. We don’t have a specific plan but I’m sure I’ll see him soon. I feel the same as before. He’s just what I need in my life right now. An enthusiastic and spectacular lover, available and flexible, good company, no hassles or drama.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Extremely satisfying sex!! Orgasms galore, pleasure and fun
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I feel a bit sad for him that he can’t cum as much as I can. I told him that and said I feel a bit selfish but he laughed and said he loves to see and feel me cum.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No. I still love it.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’ve answered this before. I’ll just add, following an in-depth discussion with a friend last week, that I get it’s not for everyone. For me, I’m able to have fantastic mind-blowing sex with someone I’m not in a relationship with. I also experience intimacy, affection and connection with such sexual partners and I’m really happy that I have this in my life.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I’m a fan of course
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