by Claire

Gender: female
Age: 20s
Current location: Australia
Highest education received: College (currently in college)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: Single
How religious are you? Not at all
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Heath Ledger Look-a-Like

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 months ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? 2 night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was tall, with blondish, long, curly hair. He looked a lot like Heath Ledger, from 10 things I hate about you. We’d only just met that night at a little bar in Melbourne, he was talking to my friends when I joined them and we started flirting. We clicked instantly.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Once we got bored of the bar, we headed back to the hotel, where we were all staying because we were there on a uni trip (all the campus’s were there. He was from Canberra, I’m from Brisbane). We went up to my room to freshen up, then when I was looking out over Melbourne out on the balcony he very romantically grabbed my jaw and kissed me. It was completely unplanned, but we both knew what would happen next.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? During the hookup to begin with we just has straight up great sex. That was the first night. The second day/night consisted of spontaneous sex before we all went out, followed by drunk sex that night, and then early morning sex the next day before I did the walk of shame back to my room. The sex on all occasions was incredible, nothing more than just oral and sex, but they were incredible.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I was already on the pill for this hook up, so we didn’t really take many precautions in regards to pregnancy, however STIs were not considered, but after the hookup we talked and established that we were free if I remember correctly.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? We were both tipsy, single and completely flirting with each other.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Alcohol was involved, the first night not so much, the second night more, but the afternoon/evening hook up had no alcohol involvement

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup I felt absolute bliss. My expectations for the future were slightly high, and not too long afterwards I had fallen for this person, but now we’re just good friends.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked to lots of people, mainly on the trip, and they were all jealous of me. I also talked to my ex, who did not react well, as well as some others who just judged me for sleeping with this guy after knowing him for about 2 hours.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was a wanted and consensual experience or both of us.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not one bit.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best part of this hookup was that I had great sex and met a great guy in the process. The worst was the fact that he’s from Canberra and I’m from Brisbane, making it near impossible to have anything further with him. 
It certainly changed the way I think about casual sex, as it showed me that having casual sex and being open about your sexuality is okay.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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