by isabel


Gender: female
Age: 29
Race/ethnicity: black
Current location: West Africa
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: logistics
Relationship status: single
Religious affiliation: none
How religious are you?: Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best?: love 2 balance the pain n pleasure sensations
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)?: 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before?: none


Heaven In D Past


How long ago did this hookup happen? 1-2 months

How would you best classify this hookup? short fling

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? 30. had a leg issue but beautiful well sculptured body. we met about 10 yrs ago as members of a religious society.we were good friends but could not express how we really felt.he went abroad and we lost contact.we reconnected last year on Facebook.one thing i loved about him was his excellent etiquette.i usually feel very relaxed around him from the very first time we met and i don’t usually feel that way around anyone.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? he told me he would be coming home and would love to see me.i was so excited.we talked like familiar strangers which heighten the sexual appeal. i feel since we both have matured, the need was mutual so we arranged things accordingly.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? best lover ever.and it was mutual.
 when we got to the hotel,we talked about our lives.then we watched TV. finally i got the sweetest kiss ever.then he went kinda crazy.he demanded as much as he gave but he still maintained his etiquette.
his penis was beautiful and he simply loved me sucking him.when he got on top of me he simply rammed into me (usually love it) he had to grip my waist cos i was going hay-wire.he pounded for a while stood up, turned me on my knees. he gave me the hardest but sweetest spanks ever.he came in loads. rested a little then he came at me again, biting my nipples, digging his nails into my flesh, moaning pure ecstasy into my ears. my fantasies became reality.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? i usually don’t cum but i never felt more alive. he came lots of time.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? he got me morning after pills.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? before we went to sleep that night, he wished we had done this earlier. so i guess we wanted to explore all the frontiers of our friendship.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? none.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? we met again and he still met my expectations.we are still friends but i chose for us to remain so cos i know he would move back abroad and sex has a funny way of messing things up.he wanted more but i was not sure if he wanted a lasting relationship.never got the courage to ask him though. but my feelings about him never changed and i would happily do it all again.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? none.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? yes.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? not at all.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? even though it was for a while, my dreams of a perfect lover came true.
the worst thing i guess is i kinda developed feelings of needing  and missing a person.

i guess the experience has given me a chance to learn so i do feel better. casual sex if done right can be beautiful.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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