What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 38
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Housewife
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2 until this event then likely 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0


How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Too many partners to describe. I met them all at a Hedonism resort. We stumbled upon the resort while walking on the beach. Checked it out with my husband and we decided to buy a day pass. First time I had ever been nude in public

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I saw an extremely well endowed man when we were touring and the next day I asked my husband if he wanted to go and get day passes. I have to admit I instigated it.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It started with a woman playing with my breasts in the pool and then we went into a playroom. Soon I was having my vagina licked and then my hubby had sex with me. The well hung man entered the room and he eventually had sex with the other woman and then he had sex with me. After that, I had sex with multiple men over the remaining days of our vacation. My husband figured at least 20 including some black men. I had oral, anal, DP, wore a butt plug in public, licked 3 vaginas and many breasts. My husband only had sex with me even though I said he could since I had many men. He did get a few blowjobs from other women and titty fucked a few of the big breasted women. The men ranged in age from 25-55 I’m guessing

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the first encounter we went back to the pool for drinks. Got drunk and went back to our resort. Came back everyday for more group sex until we had to fly home to the kids. Very much hoping to go back again next winter.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Sterilization

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? To the people at the resort and my husband. Haven’t mentioned a word to anyone at home

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Pleasure. New lovers, experimenting

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Loved it. Our marriage is even better.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I dunno

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Awesome release to talk about it

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!