What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 37
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Pooler, GA, USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Laborer
What’s your current relationship status? Single
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Giver
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
Helpless Sailor, Siren Call
How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? J was so full of life and never far from her next laugh. The kind of girl who conquered her clinical anxiety minute by minute by throwing caution to the wind. She had brown hair, brown eyes, and was beautiful even when she pulled funny faces, which she did often.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met through her brother, one of my best friends at the time. She was visiting with her family, but they’d all gone off to a tourist attraction, leaving us the afternoon. We flirted playfully in the big empty house, but I could tell how impatient she was to feel our bodies pressed together.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? A woman’s voice is what really does it for me. Some women suppress their vocal expressions of pleasure, and I’ve always done what I thought will help lovers feel secure, attractive, free. J was something else. She loved sex, and she had no problem setting her voice free. It was easy to give her exactly what she wanted because she always moaned and sighed and cried out for more.
She practically dragged me upstairs, stripping as she went, and when we were both through the bedroom door, she turned into my arms. Her body pressed against me, offering, begging, demanding.
I laid her back on the bed, teasing her thighs with kisses, slipping her panties down with exaggerated slowness. She whined, loving the attention, but was dying to be touched. Slow, long licks, each separated by her shuddering body and cries of frustration.
Finally, I began to suck, spearing her with my tongue. Only my elbows locked around her hips and I kept my mouth against her wetness.
When she came, her body spasmed with her voice, wrenching and uncontrollable, a long musical flourish of heat and ecstasy. I listened to the sound, face buried between her thighs, and thought that I could almost feel exactly what she felt in her thrashing. If we had sex afterward, then I don’t remember because I’d already gotten what I wanted.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? I don’t know
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? J was a strange one. She seemed to feel more comfortable in the act of sexual intercourse than she did lying next to me at night.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, IUD (Intrauterine device)
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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