by Sako

Gender: Male
Age: 24
Race/ethnicity: Armenian
Location: Lebanon
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Fashion Designer
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Armenian Orthodox
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation? Gay
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 72
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None


How long ago did this hookup happen? possibly a year ago.

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? an hour fling.

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was tall and handsome, about 185-7 cm tall. Roman features. I had not known him before, we met on Grindr and he had Disney’s Hercules as his profile picture, and were talking while i was at work, and he told me he was horny and i told him id come over seeing as i knew from grindr he wasn’t far away. I lied to my boss and told him i needed an hour off to go do some paperwork, and i walked to his place, excited and anxious. like the feeling u get when u know what’s going to happen but you’re not really sure how its going to pan out.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It led in his bedroom, we made out for a bit, then clothes were taken off. i insisted that i wasn’t in the mood to bottom. and that im not into it, so he agreed to bottom. i guess the planning happenned then and there.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? During the beginning, oral started off. first him and then me. and then i flipped him over and rimmed. and then i flipped him over and fucked him in several positions. he was really hairy and i was really into it. the overall sex was good. wasn’t fantastic, but i’ve learned over the years hooking up that fantastic sex doesn’t come from hooking up. we both came, and when it was all done, we both washed off. i got dressed and had some small talk as i was leaving. i said goodbye and went back to work. the whole process was about an hour and half.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Condoms. no we didn’t discuss if we were both recently tested.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was bored, i was horny, i have focusing issues at work so it was a good distraction, i had recently broken up with a serious ex, so hooking up got me through it.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? yes, poppers. on his part. he offered but im not a fan

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup i just resumed my day. i didn’t have any strong feelings towards the person nor did i have any expectations about “our future”. i always feel fondly about my hookups they helped me out in that specific time and scenario.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friends, they reacted very indifferently, because they’re used to my behavior

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Any sex is a wanted experience for me, and im hoping for my partners as well

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing about this hook up was the fact that i got off work for an hour and came back. i took a “fuck break”.
just like all the others, this hookup was no different. it helped me get over someone, it made me feel better about myself, because guys were looking at me in a sexual perspective.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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