by Duke

Gender: Male
Age: 45
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: New Jersey
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Buisness
Relationship status: Married
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 60ish
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Three

Here Kitty Kitty

How long ago did this hookup happen? A Month

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? First of More

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Kat is quite short, just over five feet tall with short blonde hair she likes in a bob cut and is quite petite with a small chest and physically not really my type.  She is also only twenty five younger than I prefer in my partners now.  We work for the same company but on different floors and in the year she had worked for us only have crossed paths a few times.  She was not really someone even on my radar as a sexual partner.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? As I have shared in previous posts, I have an open marriage and am free to pursue other women with a few rules imposed by my wife.  I also have a few rules of my own one of which I stay away from women I work with.
I had been traveling for two weeks and my wife had taken the kids to her parents for the weekend so I had decided to remain at my place in town.  It was Saturday morning and I was a little lonely and my usual sexual partner was also out of town.  I was considering heading for the bar or somewhere else to go on the prowl.
Kat knocked on my door to drop some paperwork by.  I had to sign for it and invited her in.  She was dressed in just jeans and a t shirt not even anything that provocative.  We started chatting for a few minutes and  she ended up kissing and I jokingly asked her if she wanted to have sex and she said yes.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Kat and I moved to the living room where she asked me to take my clothes off and I did so.  Kat said she liked my body as she took her shirt and bra off and asked me to sit down.  She began to suck my cock, licking and sucking and even deep throating it a bit.  It felt amazing, I hadn’t had oral in a while and Kat kept it going a good long time and I finished in her mouth.  Honestly it was the best blow job of my life but it didn’t end there.
Kat asked to use the bathroom and if I had any mouth wash, and I directed her to it.  She came back and sat down next to me and we made out for a while and I finally took her pants off.  She asked to move to the bedroom and we did so and I carried her.
Once there I laid her down on the bed and began to play with her tits a little.  I got the impression she was a little self conscious about their size and while physically she was not really my type but to me every woman’s body is a work of art to be explored.  I sucked on them a little until Kat asked me to lay down where she mounted me and my cock was a good fit in her.  She fucked me hard and I moaned a bit and it felt amazing and I came and she too had an orgasm.
Afterwards we cuddled and watched TV in bed for a couple of hours.  She played with my cock a bit but mostly we just chatted getting to know each other. Kat admitted to being pretty horny and I learned she had been single about a year and she asked about my kids.  Early in the afternoon Kat kissed me goodbye and put her clothes on and left and I felt great.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I did twice, Kat did the once

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Didn’t discuss STIs but I did use a condom

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was lonely and a little horny

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Not at all but we did have some wine in bed after

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Kat and I have spent some more time together and hooked up a few more times.  She has been at my place three nights this past week.  She likes to be in control in the bedroom and for me it has been fun to be wanted and to be the one being pursued since I am the one who usually does the chasing.   Kat is also like me, she really enjoys sex and also views it as an exercise and emotions don’t always have to be involved but can be.
Kat and I went out to dinner this past week and played video games a little, we have learned we enjoy spending time together outside of the bedroom.  Kat is quite open and enthusiastic when it comes to sex and it has been a long time since I have been excited about someone or this sexually compatible. She also understands I am in an open marriage with no plans on leaving my wife and at work she keeps her distance but we don’t really see each other there.  I am curious to see where this goes

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Haven’t told anyone, my wife has asked me not to tell her unless she asks and has also asked me to be discreet

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best part was that blow job, that was incredible.  Wasn’t really a worst part.   Now I don’t think I have ever gone that fast from meeting someone to fucking in my life, I talked about it with Kat since and she says she was not sure what came over her.  I really like and enjoy her and I am considering asking Kat if she would like to really start seeing each other.  However I have also still sleeping with an ex a little, something I am strongly considering breaking off.   Kat has made it clear she is not interested in ending my marriage but she does not one to be one of several women on the side.  I have a choice to make.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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