What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 38
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Netherlands
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? artist
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Here’s A Beer, Call Me Suzy
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? When I stepped into a cafe where I was to meet with some friends, Suzy immediately caught my attention. She was a long and tall woman in her late twenties, she had long, dark, very smooth hair and a pretty face. She wore a red dress that fitted her small breasts and broad hips very well. She caught my eye when I ordered some drinks for my friends and she smiled. I smiled back and returned to my table with my drinks, thinking not too much of it. She was with her friends, I was with mine. But about an hour and a half later as I went up to the bar to get another round of drinks, she popped up next to me, handed me a bottle, saying: Here’s a beer, call me Suzy.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? That’s what led to the hookup. I brought my friends their drinks and that was the last I saw of them that night. I sat with Suzy at the bar for some hours, talking about anything and everything from serious and personal topics to silly stuff. She had a great sense of humor and we laughed a lot.
Then she said she didn’t want to get drunk yet and kissed me. Come with me to my place, she said, we can drink more later on.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She lived close tot the bar and as soon as we entered her apartment she started kissing me again. We kissed and felt each other up for some time. When I lifted up her dress to feel her butt, she stopped me and took me to her bedroom. She told me to take my clothes off, undressed herself and laid on her side on the bed. It took me a little longer to undress and while I did I watched her. Her breasts were small but beautiful, I believe the word ‘perky’ was invented for breasts like hers, her broad hips were a perfect match to her firm round ass. Her pussy was covered with a patch of dark pubic hair. ‘It’s bad enough I feel I have to shave my armpits,’ she told me later when I told her how much I liked her hairy pussy, ‘but I really don’t see why an adult woman should carry around a girl’s pussy.’
I laid on the bed with her, we kissed and touched each other, she was as wet as I was hard. I kissed and licked her breast, nipples and belly on my way down to her pussy, inserting two fingers as I licked her. She had a quite wet orgasm. She then pulled me on top of her and wrapped her legs around my waist as I entered her. I didn’t even think about using a condom, my whole being was focussed on this wonderful female body and the lust and pleasure it generated in me.
We fucked for hours. We fucked in every position we could think of, sometimes taking a break to smoke a cigarette or have a drink. We even took a nap between sessions.
I had two orgasms before we decided we could do with some real sleep. The sun was already shining bright. When we woke up it was well over three o’clock in the afternoon. We had some coffee and a shower. I had an appointment to keep and got ready to leave. At the door, we kissed our goodbyes, and before we knew it we were at it again..
I spent three days at her place. We fucked. We slept. We fucked again. We ate something. We fucked again. The only left her house once. She was on her elbows and knees, I was kneeling behind her licking her asshole. She asked me to put my finger inside there. I did. But for the second finger we found we needed some lubricant. She didn’t have any and I don’t usually carry it around, so we went out to buy some. After the purchase, we went back to finish what we started. It’s not often that I feel so intimate and close to someone on a sexual level, as I did to Suzy when I fucked her in her ass. It was pure, physical love. Intense and deep, and purely physical.
One great thing about being an artist, is that I’m the boss of my own time. Still there comes a moment when business has to be attended to, so after three amazing days I finally left.
Suzy and I both agreed that, however great our time together has been, this was probably all it was we could give each other. We kissed and hugged one last time, and I left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt great. I still do. So does she. Sometimes we run into each other, and we talk a little but we don’t remenisce. We know what we shared those three days, and we know all is well.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Some friends. They were happy for me.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was intense, horny and beautiful.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? There was nothing bad about it
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really, but this was what I wish for everybody to experience.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nope. It was great.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I love casual sex. Having had lots of it, it taught me about beauty: having hooked up with lots of different women (and some men) showed me the beauty of the human body. Everybody is beautiful in her (or his) own way, and sharing sexual pleasure and intimacy is a great way to really see that beauty.
Casual sex doesn’t get the credit it deserves. It relaxes people, brings them closer together because sharing your own body to pleasure someone else’s and receiving pleasure in return is one of the greatest gifts everyone can both give and receive.
I wish casual sex could be seen for what it is. Casual sex. A shared pleasant experience. It should be free of machismo and slut-shaming and all that crap that has nothing to do with the act itself.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I like it.
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