What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? Bangladeshi
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? NYC
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Resident
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Muslim
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Lost count
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? This is my first one
How long ago did this hookup happen? Christmas of 2017
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’ll refer to her as K. K is very young, 21, Short hair. Very pretty and curvy. She is about 5”3. She has a very bubbly booty and huge boobs.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? So K & I met on Tinder. She is of Indian descent but from South Africa. She was visiting for the holidays. We matched on tinder in December and made small talks. She told me she is coming to NY in a week. I offered to be a tour guide for her if time permits. She agreed. I told her that if she is gonna party wild, she should carry condoms. She laughed and said I doubt it will happen. I was on night shift when she came and one morning I met up with her for lunch cutting down on sleep. We went to a Roco’s taco’s(Mexican bar) in Brooklyn. We had one frozen margarita and then we went smoke hookah. It was one of the coldest weeks in New year. Our convo was flowing like we knew each other for a long time and had so much in common. We were kinda getting close to each other but both of us were hesitant to make Love. So nothing happened that day. Afterward, when we started texting, our convo got very sexual. We start discussing our past sex life and kinks we have done and fantasies that we have. I had a feeling we will have a great sexual connection. Since my cousin was over at my
Apartment and was leaving on Wednesday. We decided to set up our hook up on Wednesday.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It was so hard waiting for Wednesday. Every day we would text and discuss what we are gonna do and etc. one night I was so horny I masturbated to her boobs on a video call. Wednesday comes, after my night shift I didn’t get much sleep and waiting for my cousin to leave. She took a while to leave. Eventually, around 4 pm she showed up at my door. It was very cold and it snowed the day before. So the conditions weren’t optimum for her to travel 1hr to get some D. But she wanted it so bad that she didn’t mind. I guess I would have done the same thing. As soon as she comes in our lips lock and layer by layers clothes start coming down leaving a traces of cloth to the bedroom. In the bedroom, we strip each other clothes and jumped on the bed making out like crazy. Using tongue, biting, feeling each other. Hands were going everywhere. Then I go down to her boobs and start sucking them. She has at least a 38DD. As I was sucking, her body started shivering from pleasure (heat was on full blast and it as 76F in the room). Then I continue to kiss my way down from her boobs to between her legs. She was cleanly shaved and already soaking wet. I love eating pussy. So I start with flicking my tongue on her clit. She started breathing heavy and moaning louder.
Then I moved her to the edge of the bed, spread her legs and dove into her juicy pussy. I started with flicking my tongue fast and hard on her clit with occasional sucking of her clit (which made her scream in pleasure). Then I slide a finger in her super tight vagina. She started pulling the sheets. Then I slide a second finger and I started sucking and at the same time flicking my tongue on her clit and fingering her until she was screaming on top of her lungs with pleasure. Then she started getting stiff and bucking her knees, letting out this huge O-M-G cumming all over my face. Then I get on top of her. We planned from before then we were gonna do it raw because we both are clean. So I teased her pussy with my dick. Rubbing it over and sliding a lil bit in a few times. Then I go in completely and pull out as she started pulling the sheets and then I keep going it for a few more times and finally I stop the tease and start fucking her. Her pussy was flowing like a river that’s how wet she was. I started thrusting her full force with deep hip movements. Then I choked as I fucked her hard until she came all over my cock again. Then we switched to 69. And omg her warm mouth felt soooo good. We continued for a few mins and then I wanted to taste my dick in her mouth(I love being dirty like that). So I kissed her. Then I bend her over and started fucking her in doggy style until she came again. Then she wanted to ride me. And she rode be soooo good. I was telling her it feels so good, I’m gonna cum and she didn’t stop until I emptied my load in her.
We instantly started second round after cleaning up. This last for so much longer because I was taking longer to cum. Then she went back to her place.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We meet on a weekend again and had a sex marathon with lots of drink tequila, whiskey, and wine. We even did anal when her pussy became sore and kinda dry after 4 rounds of sex. That was the last time we meet. Then she went back to South Africa. We are still in touch and dream about doing each other. We now share our sex stories. I’m sure when we meet again in the future first time we are gonna do is fuck the brains out of each other regardless of our relationship status.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I didn’t tell anyone. I think her friend where she was staying she figured it out because she was bad a hiding lol.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The raw sex with some who just met and that she let cum in her
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Wish we could have had more sex
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I love casual sex.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex I think becomes part of a person’s personality. People need to become more accepting of casual sex
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It is great
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