by holygirl

Gender: female
Age: 28
Race/ethnicity: Filipino
Current location: Philippines
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
Occupation: none at the moment
Relationship status: married
Religious affiliation: roman catholic
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Holy Hookup

How long ago did this hookup happen? 7 yrs

How would you best classify this hookup? fiends with benefits/booty call

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was tall, well built, handsome (he looks like one of our local actor) and we met because he had his exposure in our company.. He was 2 years shy of being a priest. One of my friends introduced me to him. We met a lot of time and we became friends.i had a huge crush on him back then.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We went out all the time but it was mostly with friends. i wanted to go out with him alone so i invited him to go out and he agreed, this time it was only the two of us…. We sang and had a couple of beer. When i was about to drop him off he asked me if i could go with him in his office. And then we kissed

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started kissing and he reached into me and startes rubbing me.. It got me hot so i grabbed his cock and started giving him a hand job. He asked if i could go down on him and i did. Since it was my first time he guided me as to what i was supposed to do… When he reached orgasm he asked me if i could swallow his load and i did….. After that night we started calling each other pet names… It’s like we were together but not… And we continued meeting and doing what we did for the first time… Since i was a virgin and raised a catholic i had a notion that i should stay a virgin until marriage so i never allowed him to enter me.., there was one time he tried but i stopped him. So everytime we meet i would just give him a blow job and eat his cum.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? No for me… Sure did for him

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I liked him, i was curious and  wanted to know how it feels…

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Alcohol for some time but not all of our hook ups

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Nothing happened, i was aware that he would leave after a year because he was going to continue studying for priesthood. I felt sad that he had to leave we still texted a couple of time. We even discussed that i would visit him but it never happened because i had a new boyfriend and i had to block him out. I miss the friendship though

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I just talked about it now… I did not want to jeopardize him before because of his “vocation”

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes this was consensual

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No…. I learned some things from him

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I got to do it with him….. I did not want to think about the “what ifs”.. The worst was that it had to end. It made me rethink myself and my values back then

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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