by Catwoman

Gender: Female
Age: 26
Race/ethnicity: Chinese
Location: San Jose, CA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
Occupation: Master’s Student
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 9
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Holy Strawberries, Batman! We’re in a Jam!

How long ago did this hookup happen? started 9 months ago, ended 2 months ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? booty call fuck buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He called me Catwoman. I called him Batman. 

No, this isn’t a story about role-playing. Things started out innocently enough on Tinder. We had some mutual friends, one of whom was my cousin. He seemed to check out ok with them.

I got Tinder about 3 weeks after I had broken up with my boyfriend of almost 3 years. I wasn’t sure what I was looking for on Tinder, but the confidence boost with each match made me feel a helluva lot better. Little did I know at the time, just having a vagina would get you tons of matches. One of my first matches, my first conversation, and first meet-up was with “Batman.”

He’s half Filipino, half Puerto Rican, about 5’9”-5’10” (I’m 5’3”), and oh-so athletically-built. He used to play football, had broad shoulders, and his muscles had muscles. 

I was really nervous when we first went on a date, but he was so sweet and easy to talk to, I felt more comfortable as the date went on. He drove me back to my house, and we just sat in his car, listening to music and talking. I told him my backstory and he said he’d be whatever I wanted him to be. We only made out that first night.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Some sexting, a couple of dates, drinks, and makeout sessions, and a handjob later, we finally had sex–doggy style in his batmobile, in the passenger seat, with the seat pushed all the way down to the backseat. It was amazing but short. He came soo quickly, and he was so embarrassed. The next 1-2 times were also flukes. But after that, it was only a-a-a-amazing. I had never been with an athlete before, and the endurance and strength is ridiculous.

God, he also knew just how to turn me on, and he always looked and smelled soo good. He’s at least 6” long and girthy enough without it hurting.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It was almost always doggy style in the passenger seat of his car. After the first few times, I always came. He always did haha. He’s an amazing lover. I’m disappointed that it’s over.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? He’s never gotten any STD tests, so I never gave him a blow job. We always used condoms.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? HORNY AS FUCK. Super high libido after breaking up with ex. Felt guilty at first but then hormones took hold.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Alcohol–beers or hard liquor and chase. Sometimes too much. I blacked out once and found out we had sex during my blackout.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I started having feelings for him and stopped seeing him for a bit. Started seeing him again but started having feelings again so haven’t seen him since.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Friends, female and male. Various reactions from girl power/awe to shock/worry.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? YESSS

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, only that it had to end!

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The sex was the most amazing I’ve ever had, including the other hookup sex I’ve had after. 

I never thought I could be the type to have casual sex. I never thought sex could be good, or even done, without love.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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