What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Consultant
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Hindu
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 14
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
Hook Up With An Old Friend
How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 days ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Tina is this crazy Indian girl, who also happens to be a good friend of my wife J, from the time we started dating. In our younger days, we all were party animals and have spent several drunken nights together. She has kissed both me and my wife on different occasions and always shared a very weird chemistry with both of us, and at times creating tension between us.
She is in her early 30s, quite fit and good looking. She has a very decent set of tits with sensitive nipples and a pussy which starts drooling the moment we start kissing…
So in younger days, we kissed several times-always in a club or at home while drunk, or later at home when I and my then girlfriend, now wife, shared the bedroom with her. It was great receiving a BJ from her while my girlfriend was sleeping drunk next to us. We never had penetrative sex, the farthest we went were mutual masturbation and orals. My sex life with my girlfriend was mediocre, and crazy horny girls always turned me on.
Years passed by, we changed cities, I got married to my girlfriend and moved abroad. I was hardly ever in touch with Tina, but she and my wife were in constant touch and even became closer.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was visiting the city Tina lived in, and she has become quite a successful professional by now. I asked her if she would like to catch up, and she said she could come by my Hotel. She came in her work clothes and gave me a warm hug, and she said she got some weed on the way for the old time sake. So we ordered good food and drank some cocktails. However, we couldn’t smoke because the hotel window could not be opened. Suddenly she asked me ‘do you have condoms?’ .I was stunned for a moment, and I asked ‘why? You want to fuck me finally?’. She laughed and said, ‘haha No, I only wanted to cover the smoke detector with a condom so that we can smoke inside’. Later, after smoking the weed on the terrace and drinking some more cocktails, she asked me ‘are you still thinking about our old sessions?’ . I said ‘no, I am not…but I am quite horny, you knew how my sex life with J would be’. We chatted for some more time, and by now we were quite high and drunk. All of a sudden she got a phone call from the guy she is dating and she decided to leave. She gave a peck on my cheek and I hugged her tight and she said ‘I know what you want, but you know, we cant be those young brats anymore…’ she left the place. I drank some whiskey, browsed through some news on the TV and went off to sleep, of course with a pretty hard cock.
Sometime in the middle of the night, I was woken up by Tina’s call. She said ‘I am downstairs, can I sleep on your couch?’ I said, ‘sure, come on in’. She was at my door in a few minutes. The moment she came in we started making out. We were kissing deep, I was grabbing her heavy ass, trying to part the ass cheeks and in no time we were both standing there naked. She was really drunk and was pushing my head down to her groin the whole time. I decided to give her the head of her life. I started licking her clit and fingering her really wet pussy. She came in 3 minutes; I’ve never seen a woman cum so fast. I continued playing with her pussy lips and stroking her clit, and this time there was no reaction. I realized that she has already fallen asleep. I was feeling terrible, I badly wanted to fuck her, but fucking a sleeping drunk girl was not my style. I went to the bathroom, jerked off, smoked a cigarette and went to sleep.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The next morning when I woke up, she was still lying naked, she had amazing smooth skin, shapely legs, and a very firm and round ass. The morning sun was falling into the room, making her look like a goddess. I tried to turn her around, but she was already up. She snuggled into my chest and told me ‘I hope you didn’t make me pregnant yesterday’. I told her what happened, and she said ‘I am so sorry, I owe you a great time now…but first I have to eat’. She opened the fridge ate an apple and some bread like a hungry kid, and came back to me. She took off my shorts and exclaimed ‘has he gotten bigger than last time? Or have I gotten used to of smaller dicks?’ I got the BJ of my life. Later she climbed on me and put my dick into her already wet pussy and started riding me slowly while touching her clit. Again, she came in 3 minutes. I turned her around and started pumping so hard into her. She was squeezing her boobies herself and trying to put them in my mouth. We were fucking like crazy for a while, and she came again. I couldn’t hold on anymore, and she said ‘bring it on, let me taste it’. I took my dick out and came all over her body, but she sucked my dick clean and she said ‘if J doesn’t mind we should try to get her into this soon’. We cleaned ourselves up, had some breakfast, laughed over some of our old jokes, and then I had to rush to catch my flight. We decided that she will come to visit us in a few months and that I should plan to take off from work, so that we can fuck when J goes to work.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We are not in constant touch. When she finds some very kinky stuff on tumblr, she sends me the link. Sometimes when I am alone and horny, I send her some dick pics.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, I didn’t want it but was unable to stop it
How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one, and I think thats how it should be in case of casual hook ups.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? I wouldnt be happy if my wife does the same to me.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Great connection, great sex and lack of complications.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Cheating on someone we both loved and cared about.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I realized casual sex can be a beautiful thing if you take it in the right sense . Life is to enjoy and to explore people around.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? She is a person very close to me. We can’t be just friends because of this great chemistry. She and I both love my wife, so it’s complicated and nice at the same time.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Its a great platform.
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