Current location: California
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? I like women
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Hooking Up at Work
How long ago did this hookup happen? 7 years ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short fling
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Kate worked onsite for a vendor for the company that I worked for. She was Chinese…petite, like 5’5, about 100 pounds…curvy. I thought she was cute and she walked by the conference room I worked in frequently. I finally started making small talk with her and one day asked for her number. She was surprised (she asked “is that allowed?”) and wrote her number on my card. I was stoked.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had several clandestine lunches (we were paranoid about people from work finding out). We held hands and talked a lot. We graduated to making out in our cars at the garage at work. We’d drive up to the empty floors on the garage for privacy. Finally, she agreed to come over to my place on a Saturday, late afternoon.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We made some small talk. She was wearing a long skirt. We started making out and I knew it was gonna happen. She dropped her skirt. She had a very tight body. I played with her breasts and my cock got hard. I pulled on a condom and she grabbed my cock and massaged it. After some more kissing and foreplay, she was wet and I knew she was ready. I led her to the bed and she laid back while I stood up for some standing missionary. I pounded her for about 20 minutes or so. She moaned alot. Then I sat Indian style against the backboard of my bed and she followed me. She sat on my lap and guided my cock back into her pussy. She rode me and bounced on my cock for another 20 minutes or so. Her tits were bouncing up and down and I really loved it. Her nipples were pointed from being aroused and I used my palms to brush up on her breasts while she rode me.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I was shocked that I wasn’t coming and lasting so long…I tend to last a long time with condoms on. I could tell she wanted me to finish because she told me she had already come (I know better now). I said I was about to come and let her ride me for another 5 minutes before I faked an orgasm (shocking, I know).
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I wore a condom but we didn’t discuss histories.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I liked her and thought we were growing into a relationship.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Nope.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We laid naked for a couple hours or so on the bed and talked. She went home. I realized now that she was just horny and wanted to get laid. I would have spent all day and night with her.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my roommate and he said “finally!”. Haven’t told anyone or talked about it since now.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I don’t regret it. She was paranoid about people from work finding out about us and later accused me of telling people, which wasn’t true. She stopped answering my calls and started avoiding me.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was the hot sex. I learned how much I like standing missionary and sitting Indian style and having a girl ride me. Those angles make for some great sex. She had a beautiful body and I loved the way her tits bounced and her nipples got erect. The worst was that it happened only once and she dumped me for no reason. Hasn’t changed my view of casual sex or myself. The experience did give me some confidence and made me realize that women are just as horny as men.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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