What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 33
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? India
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Sales Professional
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Hindu
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? I like a little kink
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Hookup with a Call Girl

How long ago did this hookup happen? Two month back

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Paid sex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? First Partner: Turkish Muslim, Fat, Sex Worker
Second Partner: Indian, Not good looking, Sex Worker
Third Partner: Wife, Fat, No sex knowledge
Fourth Partner: Call Girl, Average Looking, Knows sex and I enjoyed
Fifth Partner: Call Girl, Good Looking and I enjoyed a lot

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I investigated it and found the girl on Facebook, as wife was away for 3 month and I wanted to have sex with this girl for a long time, so I set up a meeting. We hooked up at her house.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It was awesome. It involved oral, vaginal, and spanking. I felt very good and she enjoyed as well. However, that call girl is costly so I can’t afford her now.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was feeling good for an entire week as I never had such fulfilling sex.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, Revenge / Getting even, Boredom

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They were too out of it / passed out / asleep and therefore unable to give consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one, as it could bring shame

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Experience and pleasure of giving and receiving oral, sexual position and respect for each other likings

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing, I had the best one

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Casual sex is not bad if you are sexually unsatisfied with your wife.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nothing, it was perfect and lovely

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? If its paid sex then do it with independent girls who is doing this by choice as the girl whom I was with is a lawyer and has a nice job with her.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Its good as we can offload our emotion here which we can’t say it to our married partner

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!