by Jessica

Gender: Female
Age: 25
Race/ethnicity: Asian
Current location: New York
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Hookup in Central Park

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 weeks ago

How would you best classify this hookup? short fling

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is my height, athletic, dark haired and dark eyed.  I met him online, and he suggested that we meet in real life.  My impulsive and curious side got the better of me, and we met.  I thought he was cute.  He’s definitely very smart and accomplished, and I was impressed with that.  In person, he’s really quiet and normal, has a slight tendency to stutter and overall just seems like a genuine guy.  The first time we met, we ended up walking all over the park and chatted the entire time.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After that first meeting, we went home and chatted online some more.  It turned sexual pretty quickly.  He instigated it, and there was back and forth conversation about where and what to do.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We found a quiet spot in the park, sat down on a big rock, and began to kiss.  He was a really good kisser.  We both had to pause and take a breath once in a while. He played with my boobs as he kissed me.  He was grabbing for me pretty fast, and I felt around his cock through his shorts.  I undid his pants and gave him oral.  He bent down and sucked on my nipples, eventually went to finger me and rub my clit.  After a while, he asked if I wanted to fuck, and I said yes.  It was exciting to be with someone new.  Afterward, he asked if I was bi-curious.  We talked about schools and roommates and friends’ sexual behaviors and each other’s sexual fantasies.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I didn’t orgasm.  He orgasmed once that I knew of.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We talked about whether or not we were free of STDs.  I am on the pill, and he uses condoms religiously.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Curiosity, hormones, impulsive nature

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup, we continued to talk.  He was not trying as hard to talk to me anymore.  I feel somewhat guilty about it and am not sure if we should continue whatever this is we’re doing.  He made it clear that he is only looking for a casual arrangement.  I still like him, but I’m not sure what to do at this point.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked about my hookup to some internet friends. They reacted with a bit of shock.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was consensual and wanted for both of us.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I don’t regret this hookup yet.  I may end up regretting it, but for now, it counts as a good memory in my head.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best thing was getting to have sex with someone new.  The worst was the circumstances under which we met and hooked up.  This hookup makes me want to reevaluate my life a little bit.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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