What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 55
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Nurse
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? I like sex with men and women
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Two


How long ago did this hookup happen? Two nights ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I took a flight to Las Vegas and these guys were on my flight. They were very handsome. I didn’t know them before, but we all sat in the same row on the airplane and at the same hotel.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I went down for a cocktail later that night and they were at the hotel bar. They spotted me and invited me over to their table for drinks. We talked for a bit and they invited me for dinner while telling me how beautiful I was. The two guys asked me if I had ever had a threesome and I replied no. They asked if I would like to come to one of their rooms for drinks and I agreed.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? One guy had a suite with a bar so we all went there for more drinks. They unzipped my dress and took my bra off. Each guy had a breast in their mouth, licking and sucking until my nipples were hard. They pulled my panties off and laid me on the bed. They took turns eating me out, licking my clitoris, making me feel good. I was coming so much. They asked me how I wanted it and I told them I wanted double penetration. One guy laid down and I got on top. His cock was so big. The other guy put his cock in my asshole. They gave me everything I wanted in bed. I was getting pleased in both holes. The guys were dirty talking, telling me that my pussy was so good and the other guy said he liked my tight asshole. He started going deeper into my ass until he started coming. The other guy had me riding his cock up and down in my pussy faster, until we both started coming.

After, we all took a shower. Then I said I was going back to my room, but they said the suite had two king size beds and I could stay. We all ended up sleeping and in the morning we had breakfast. I stayed in one of the guys’ rooms and we ended up talking about our night. He said he would like to see me again and I said I would like that too. He hugged and kissed me and continued to kiss me and rubbed my between my legs. He asked if he could taste my pussy again before I left and I said sure. This man licked my pussy from behind until I exploded with come. He fucked me doggy style and I kept on coming and coming. Then he came.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup, we talked about seeing each other again and exchanged phone numbers. I had no expectations. We just agreed to have sex with each other. If I wanted sex with either guy, they have no problem with that. If they wanted sex, they can just call me.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, Exchanged recent STI test results

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Making new friends, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked to my best friend. She asked me if it was good and how did it feel. She was happy for me.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having a threesome and me being in control. Getting what I wanted and to have four hands on my body. Enjoying two big cocks. Double penetration!

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Saying good bye. Until we meet next weekend for two nights of sex and fun.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No, I enjoy casual sex. It’s okay if it’s agreed on. I like my sex life. And I’m not hurting no one and they are not hurting me. We are adults and we all consented.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I would like to say that these guys are professional men. They liked what they saw in me. And I was very attracted to them. And I always wanted to experience a threesome. I always wanted anal sex. We had a good time.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex plays a big part of my life. Live and let live.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s great to express your feelings and tell your story and life experiences.

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