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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What country and/or city do you live in? London, UK
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Dancer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? I have not counted for years, but definitely more than 1,000.
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Horny When Pregnant

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I didn’t know anyone before that night; they were just strangers, and I was horny.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had never cheated on my hubby before; we had been married for five years at this time, and I was pregnant at almost 6 months. I was mega horny when I was pregnant and was getting sex from my hubby morning and night but it still wasn’t enough!

I was out at night to meet a girlfriend for dinner in Chinatown. It was summer and very hot; I was especially hot because of my pregnancy, so I had a really skimpy dress on. I have big boobs, usually, they are a 32G, but they were bigger when I was pregnant. I was always braless, and my dress showed big cleavage and side boob. My belly was already showing big time since my body is petite.

I was waiting in a bar for my girlfriend when she text and say she running late when there I notice there a guy who kept looking at me. He was obviously checking me out and because of the way I was sitting, my big belly must have been blocked from his view from the table. After a few minutes, he came over and started talking and offered to buy me drink. He saw my pregnant belly and wedding ring but he didn’t run away!

I told him my girlfriend was late, so he said that he would keep me company until she came.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After we talked for a few minutes, I was getting turned on. He was telling me that I was sexy and that he thought my boobs were so amazing. I suggested to him that we go and have sex in the toilets. He was shocked but quickly agreed; I was even shocked myself for saying it. Before I knew it, we were in a cubicle in the men’s toilets; it felt like a bit of a dream like that it was not actually happening. The sex was quite quick, and I gave him a quick blowjob and then when he was hard, I straddled him on the toilet. I got naked, and he only had his trousers round his ankles. After a few minutes, he shot his load in my pussy.

I used toilet paper to clean me up a bit and put my dress back on but just put my panties in my handbag. I went back to the bar and sat by myself as he left the bar straight away.

I couldn’t believe how easy it was to cheat on my hubby and how I did not feel guilty. After that, my friend called and she was having big problems at work and had to cancel. I was about to call my hubby and tell him I was coming home, but then, I decided to stay out by myself.

That night, I picked up another guy in that same bar and three more in another one. Then, I went clubbing where I hooked up with two more guys before going home.

My hubby couldn’t believe how wet my pussy was when I woke him for sex when I got back home, but at the time, he thought it just all my own wetness!

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I loved it so much. I did it a few more times when I was pregnant until I confessed to my hubby. Luckily, he is turned on by it and so we are now in an open marriage where I can be out picking up strangers as much I can.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My husband and he was happy with it, but none of my friends can understand how I can do this. They think I am crazy to have unprotected sex when pregnant and even now.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I discovered my true nature, and I am happier than before. Now, I can be myself.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I love casual sex!

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think everyone should have casual sex!

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great

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