What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Cheltenham
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Average height. Well toned body. Icy white skin. Covered in tattoos. Incredible toned ass. Small but perky tits with a nipple piercing. Long raven black hair. Lip piercing.
We had met through a mutual love of horror films and although there was some distance, she would frequently visit my country. We had met in person a couple of times when she was over. I had recently come out of a very damaging relationship and was not expecting anything or even necessarily looking for anything. She knew that I had been through a very traumatic break-up and we got talking a little more personally and she told me that she was having a really hard time with her boyfriend and had admitted to me that she’d been seeing someone else behind his back.
I didn’t judge her at all for that. I quickly became attracted to her and she became a really close friend who I’d keep in touch with daily.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? When we were talking, she suggested that we should get a hotel and hang out for a weekend. I was incredibly excited by this and agreed, still not expecting anything. When I asked if we’d be sharing a bed, she told me yes because she wanted to fuck my brains out. I was hugely shocked by this but quickly said yes when she asked me if I wanted to do the same to her. The waiting was agony but beforehand, she started sending me pictures of her tits and ass (keeping her pussy secret until we met up) and I reciprocated with dick picks. Very flatteringly she said I was huge.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The first time we finally met up, it took a while because we were both kinda nervous. After a lovely evening out, we both eventually ended up in bed. We started making out and eventually, we were both completely naked. She was completely shaven and I went down on her, making her body wriggle and convulse as she said: “Feels so fucking good”. After making her orgasm, she demanded that I fuck her without a condom. I slowly slid my cock inside her. It was the tightest pussy I have ever felt. My cock was enveloped and every thrust deep inside her felt incredible. She was choking out air in small gasps until after a solid 15 or so minutes, I came hard and deep inside her and we collapsed into each other’s arms. We only did missionary the first time but over the course of the next few days at the hotel, we were at it like rabbits, barely putting our clothes on. Doggy was my absolute favorite with her as she had such a great ass. The only downside was that she never went down on me because she only did that with serious relationships, which was a shame considering all the oral I gave her.
I went over to visit her not long afterward. Still living with her boyfriend, our chances for fucking were limited. The only time we managed was a marathon fucking session one day when he wasn’t in. But on the last night, in the bedroom right next door to his, we lay in bed and she insisted that I wasn’t going to have traveled all the way just to fuck her once. So, VERY quietly, we fucked on her incredibly squeaky mattress. I had to be slow and deep (usually I go hard and fast) and it felt amazing hearing her quiet gasps and having to restrain my own from how tight she was.
We didn’t see each other for a little while (we’d had a falling out over something stupid) until the next time when we were both at a day-long event. She messaged me telling me how horny she was and then she came to my hotel room and it was just like before. We ripped each others’ clothes off and went straight back to hard, intense fucking. She’d scratch my back and chest while I’d bite her perfect ass and continue to fuck her tight pussy deep and hard, coming inside her so many times over the course of a few days.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Once it had happened for the last time, it wasn’t too long before I realized that she actually could be quite an unpleasant person. She hadn’t been lying when she said she’d break my heart but I was too lovestruck to listen. Our friendship rapidly disappeared and it reached the point that she blocked me on most social media sites. My hope was that we’d be in a relationship together and I could take her away from feeling the need to sleep with loads of other people to feel wanted or attractive.
Honestly, I wish we could still be friends but she really needs to get over the attitude that she had, that the world owed her something. I’d seen her vulnerable side but she sadly felt the need to put up a wall.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, Making new friends, It was easy/convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I’ve told a few people now after the fact and people do seem surprised just because I (for some reason) am seen as such an innocent!
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Very
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? I got emotionally attached when it was clear that it should have just remained a casual thing. She turned out to not be an entirely nice person at all.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The sex was fucking incredible, it was frequent and I got regular sexy photos. Plus I got to have sex with someone more my size. It was exciting to know that it was almost cuckholding too.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The aftermath when I realized she actually wasn’t a good person at all and broke my heart completely.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I honestly think that it’s something everyone should probably experience in their life. Sex is fun and without the emotional attachment, it can be very liberating and sexy. But I don’t really think it’s something I could do permanently as I enjoy relationships and emotional attachment.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I do wish we could have stayed friends
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a good idea!
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