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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 50
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Tech
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Bi-Curious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Hot Afternoon Hook Up

How long ago did this hookup happen? 25 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Met through an ad in the Gay Pro Foreskin Magazine “Uncut”. He was tall thin, big white beard in his early sixties. I bought the magazine and answered the ad the same day. We spoke by phone and he told me to come over. I was incredibly excited and incredibly nervous.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I went to his apartment and we talked about what we wanted – no strings attached sex. I was really horny that day and had masturbated several times after picking up the magazine Uncut. I saw his add and called him. He was offering blow jobs to anyone with a foreskin. I then went to his place which was a short drive away.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We talked about sexual histories and STIs. He was hetero widowed and then realized he was gay. I was hetero bicurious in a sexless marriage. He was in to foreskin restoration since he was circumcized and had a fetish for foreskin. He asked me to drop my shorts and emmediately noticed my hard on and pre cum. He then asked me to take off my underwear and was so excited to see my dick that it made me feel sexually desired for the first time in my life. I then asked him to take off his clothes which he did and i was amazed how much bigger he was. I was 6.5-7 inches and he was full 10 inches with a cock ring. We stroked each others dicks for a little bit – holding his was one of the best experiences i ever had. Then i put on a condom and he started giving me a blow job after sucking on my balls. I didnt like the condom (too thick) so asked if i could just jerk off he said yes as long as i came in his mouth. He laid on the couch and i mounted him making sure to grab his dick with my other hand and rubbed it on my asshole. He got crazy horny with that. Shortly after i shot my load mostly in his mouth but also some on his glasses and his beard. I had to head out quick so as not to make my wife suspicious by my absence. I said good bye and said we would stay in touch.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We spoke a few times by phone but I was never able to sneak out again. Felt guilty the next day but it was great feeling desired/lusted after for the first and only time in my life. If I could still get together regularly for sex with them I could.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, I was feeling lonely

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My wife eventually – She was shocked but did not leave me because she admitted to denying sex to me on purpose as “punishment” plus her own sexual baggage/issues

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively negative

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Feeling desired and sexy

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Having to sneak around

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Wish I could do it again

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Would like it to be more accepted

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it – helps break tabboos

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